I'm losing precious brain cells having to talk down to this person... as much as I hate to give up... I think I have to realize that some people are just hopeless....
Darlin' I hope you develop a genuine personality real soon, before your supposed 'beauty' fades... or else you're going to be awfully lonely from 30 onward.
"The weakest soul, knowing its own weakness, and believing this truth that strength can only be developed by effort and practice, will, thus believing, at once begin to exert itself, and, adding effort to effort, patience to patience, and strength to strength, will never cease to develop, and will at last grow divinely strong."
- James Allen
wow.. why is everyone ganging up on elle?? isn't this the "LOVE FORUM" and not the flame forum??
too bad they don't have a "lost look" icon..
raverboy
...this is just my perspective on the situation...
i guess these will have to do for now...
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raverboy
...this is just my perspective on the situation...
We've tried to offer her advice... she didn't want it... we tried to explain things to her that she's obviously misinformed about it... she'd rather fight than admit to the possibility of being wrong.
She has even insulted other posters on her 'aimless quest of the pointless'....
So I guess everyone is now just pretty much waiting for the next pointless thing she says or they're very bored...
"The weakest soul, knowing its own weakness, and believing this truth that strength can only be developed by effort and practice, will, thus believing, at once begin to exert itself, and, adding effort to effort, patience to patience, and strength to strength, will never cease to develop, and will at last grow divinely strong."
- James Allen
Don't see no advice here! 5 pages of bullshit and shittingWe've tried to offer her advice... she didn't want it...
Love is a feeling. You can't control it Commitment is commitment.Love is a commitment,your definition of 'love' would go under puppy love or infatuation.
If it were one thing they wouldnt have 2 words for it
Ok i have a bit over a decade then. And 30 y. olds are not as bad looking as you seem to think either..Darlin' I hope you develop a genuine personality real soon, before your supposed 'beauty' fades... or else you're going to be awfully lonely from 30 onward.
sorry 6 pages actually
Love is not a feeling contrary to what many have believed.I mentioned it to OV before and i shall put it again.Love is a mere charecterisitc of humanity.It exist across the board from charities to humanitarian works and in all level of human relationship from friendship to a marriage.
Do people who engage in humanitarian work have feelings for all victims?Nope,they don't but they act out of love and care.
Love is committment.If committment were to exist as a sole entity without love,then what differs if from an obligation and paper/verbal base contract?
In all genuinity,commitment in the real sense is love driven itself,the co-harmonical of it.Because when there is love,the commitment comes as a joy and not out of a promised obligation.
That feeling that you mistaken it as love is lust.It is essential for a relationship/marriage but theorectically,it is not love.
Last edited by UKboy; 09-02-09 at 02:45 PM.
Elle, you're the only one coming out with bullshit on this forum.
Go apply to be a mail order bride or a prostitute if you're so convinced that way of life is for you.
Hey, we should all celebrate. This is the first time we got a hooker on LF.
"Why are you an atheist?"
"because I paid attention in science class."
i just got paid on friday... so which direction do i head in?
raverboy
...this is just my perspective on the situation...