breaking up with him because of size..and...

[Perryville]

BTW, thank you for the compliment, Hera. Your recognition of my sterling qualities, is appreciated. Also please show any of my posts that I state that a woman is not entitled to sexual satisfaction?

[Moe]

You know if you really love this guy it's pretty easy.
Sit him down explain it to him, tell him you Love Him and will work with him, damned he's a Dr. there has to be things HE can do, there's all types of supplements out there and surgeries.
If he's unwilling then it was in his ballpark and his decision to stay or leave.

[Petit Papillon]

You know if you really love this guy it's pretty easy.
Sit him down explain it to him, tell him you Love Him and will work with him, damned he's a Dr. there has to be things HE can do, there's all types of supplements out there and surgeries.
If he's unwilling then it was in his ballpark and his decision to stay or leave.

Moe I explain You... You know what You ask for? It`s like You would ask You women had a pussy with a whole like just after giving a birth and You would ask her to stretch it or something... Anyway if he do any surgery,is penis will be like 2-3 cm longer but the risk is that he may not feel anything(if the surgeon ****s up the nerves)... So would You risk feeling anything for feeling nothing but having a bigger penis?

[vashti]

Moe I explain You... You know what You ask for? It`s like You would ask You women had a pussy with a whole like just after giving a birth and You would ask her to stretch it or something... Anyway if he do any surgery,is penis will be like 2-3 cm longer but the risk is that he may not feel anything(if the surgeon ****s up the nerves)... So would You risk feeling anything for feeling nothing but having a bigger penis?

Sadly, some men would. Women, too. Women run the same risk with breast surgeries.

[Sanctuary]

I don't seem to be the one with the problem. I never in any of my posts mentioned religion, Darwinism, creationism, or that I believe that women should not be satisfied, sexually. If you can find any such references , let me know. People seem to be more interested in putting words in my mouth, that I didn't say, instead of addressing my legitimate questioning of shallow behavior. For the record, I am not religious, and am a confirmed believer in natural selection, in a valid scientific context. To use some kind of half-assed genetic mumblings, to justify shallow and callous behavior, speaks much more about the posters, than it does about me.

So it's shallow behavior to dump a guy that doesn't satisfy you sexually? You need to get off your high horse if you think physical attributes don't matter. Nonphysical attributes are important too when looking for a partner but if the sex is THAT bad then it's a no go. End of story.

I don't see why you're even defending the guy with the small penis. There's so many other guys in this world, why not just go for someone who has just as good of a personality except he can also do an adequate job in bed?

Also, if you're a believer of natural selection (and a confirmed one too whatever that means), why would you take offense to what I said?

He has an undesirable trait (which incidentally is most likely genetic) so it makes it hard for him to reproduce aka natural selection.

Your impassionate defense of this guy seems to come out of nowhere and I can't help but wonder if this isn't about something else. Why do you hate superficial people so much? We're all superficial in one way or another even if it's unconscious.

[misombra]

i addressed your concern about shallow behavior. i told you i was shallow. being shallow has brought me quite far in life.

[qwertz]

i couldnt be with a guy if his penis was literally the size of a thumb. Dont know about anyone elses, but my thumbs are quite small!!

[Lozenger]

hmm, i wonder if animals ever feel sexually unsatisfied in a situation like this?

I just find it strange that people care a lot more about being satisfied than animals where they just concentrate on getting good genes. At times like this, i feel like an alien hehe

[misombra]

animals want to be done right too. in fact they are a lot more intelligent than us when it comes to natural selection. female preying mantis's will bite a males head off if he doesn't do her right.

[Heratriumphant]

BTW, thank you for the compliment, Hera. Your recognition of my sterling qualities, is appreciated. Also please show any of my posts that I state that a woman is not entitled to sexual satisfaction?

Let's see, you lable us "shallow" because we wouldn't be happy with a freakishly tiny penis that spooged before it even got in the door.

And as I recall you take personal offense to the idea of women using sex toys.

Really, what other conclusion is one to draw?

[Perryville]

Hera, I labeled those posters "shallow", whose only answer was to break up the relationship, instead of trying to find some answer to the sexual disfunction, together. I also admire your selective memory of my posts about toys. I never ever said that anyone should not use toys, I said that they should not blame their partners for their use, but take the responsibility themselves. Too many posters will always play the "blame game", in order to avoid unpleasant truths about themselves. You seem to be no different.

[Heratriumphant]

Perry, talk about your penis some more I bet that will make your little ego feel all better.

Or if your all for unpleasant truths, how about the fact you get nasty as whenever someone disagrees with you.

It's an Internet forum, get used to it.

[LOVESEVERYONE]

HMMM...If you wanna leave him for that reason then do so. However you come off a little shallow. There are many things to do to correct it for one enlargement surgery and viagra. Not to mention toys. Sex does not have to be bad. You both have to love and enjoy each other and use some creativity and imagination. I dunno, I would say break it off cuz obviously you dont really love the guy, cuz if you did none of this would really matter and you would both work it out some how, even swingers parties. Be open minded or leave that is what I say. Just respect the man and dont break down his spirits or self esteem that is kind of rude I think.

[Perryville]

Hera, you seem to have a lot of trouble with conflict resolution. Rather than admit to mistakes, you go all "pitbull", and try to insult your way out of an argument. I haven't ever personally bashed you, why do you feel the need to insult me? If you have any personal issues that you are having trouble with, I would be glad to help, or maybe you could try medication.

[Heratriumphant]

Perry, I don't come here to argue with people like you.

You're being passive agressive, which is of course your choice. Go re-read the whole bit if you need to. You brought the conflict and you feed it.

Weren't you "done" with this thread awhile ago?
I'm really done with this sniping with you, can you live without the attention?