think i m late in responding to this thread, but i m going to be a pain and give my 2c anyway
if you want to attract a decent sort of a guy, the one you always complain that you wish you had, you know mr. right, he is not going to be attracted to what you wear or how much skin you are showing or how much eye shadow you go on, or the elegant way you walk. sure he might feel like banging you for the night but thats about all. otherwise be yourself, be intellectual and let your words and actions demand attention, not the g-string you are wearing inside your skirt. catch my drift.