2 Months on... My Story and hoping to help others

[joy&freedom]

Hey Lhn,

Thanks for your on going thread. It has helped a lot of people already, including me. You'll be fine, even though it hurts badly from time to time - I know it from my own sad experience. Thinking back about my own situation, it seems to me that the key point of moving on after a break up is to persuade yourself to accept the fact that it's over, that all your efforts to save the relashionship were useless or of not such a great effect.It helped me to bring back the piece into my mind and soul. The main problem of such a tremendous pain lies inside of us. Hold on guys, we'll be happy again one day - that's for sure!

[lhn]

Yeah you're right. It probably took me the best part of 4 months to accept it.

Now I don't know what i want anymore. Just going to concentrate on me being me and see where I end up i suppose.

Thanks for your reply

[qwertz]

I was doing fine!

And you still are. You will get past this and come out the other side even stronger. I know you will

[ricerocket1]

your just having a rough patch...ive been doing great with mine also i even texted her to see how shes been now its just been a rough week since i haven't work and left a lot of free time in my hands but im better now again...i think it's just that saying 2 step forward 1 step back. it doesn't help also that it's valentines day you know?

[pellis]

LHN, great post here. me and my girl just broke up less than a week, now. i felt the same as you, but i realized that i did all i could do in the relationship and she did, too. we had moved in w/ each other for a year now and she told me today that she is with another guy in the same apt complex that i am in now. i told her that she had to go earlier this wk, but i feel much better knowing that there is someone out there for me that is the right one. earlier this wk, i was hurting so bad but i came to conclusion that maybe she isnt the right one for me all this time, i feel that i should not be feeling this great so soon.

just know that there is someone out there that will make you happy, eventually.

goodluck

[lhn]

Thanks for all the replies.
I am sticking by my decision to not reply and can feel myself mending again. Just not nice that it has to be this way but life isn't fair I guess. Just gotta suck it up, put on a brave face and keep looking forward.
Cheers everyone though.

[kev1987]

Thanks for sharing..It helps to ease the pain in a way..Like everyone said to me, you led a life without her before and you will do fine in the future too.
Have faith in the life ahead of you.