He prefers porn over sex, is this normal?

[Tommy]

Can some other male confirm this? Because yeah, I find it odd, and definitey untrue in my house.

Opposite.... A woman is no comparison to my hand.... Not even close.... In ejaculation alone it's probably 4X more with a woman.. at least!

[Illusional]

Opposite.... A woman is no comparison to my hand.... Not even close.... In ejaculation alone it's probably 4X more with a woman.. at least!

so in other words, you're neglecting your hand??

raverboy

[Tommy]

so in other words, you're neglecting your hand??

raverboy

Nah lol.... Remember my fiance dumped my ass.... My hand is my best friend hahaha...

Goddamn woman.

[puregirl]

yes, I think it is totally normal.

[Illusional]

Nah lol.... Remember my fiance dumped my ass.... My hand is my best friend hahaha...

Goddamn woman.

sorry, but i can't keep up with every other member's problems. mines always comes before yours, and if i have any memory left, i'll try and fit a few of your new members into my memory.

raverboy

[kai]

well do one thing . Buy a book of kamasutra and try some NEW POSITIONS .

You've to ask yourself what are the stuffs that you don't do which in porn movies they show . I can bet that he's craving for those things and that is why he is watching porn. Maybe he is shy to say it to you. Just ask him . Or if you can , watch porn with him and get intimate .

the key here is TRY SOMETHIN NEW

[Mallory]

I have a question: if you are trying something new, will you have to do that every time you are going to have sex because otherwise it would be boring again?

take role play for example... I don't have experience in 'trying new things' can anyone tell me the effect for the sexlife future??

(I personally believe that its best not to watch porn often or masturbate, so you won't
get used to other stimulus than your partner)

[cmacattack1]

well do one thing . Buy a book of kamasutra and try some NEW POSITIONS .

You've to ask yourself what are the stuffs that you don't do which in porn movies they show . I can bet that he's craving for those things and that is why he is watching porn. Maybe he is shy to say it to you. Just ask him . Or if you can , watch porn with him and get intimate .

the key here is TRY SOMETHIN NEW

That's what I don't understand. People try the same thing over and over again hoping for some miraculous change but doing the same thing and getting different results is the definition of INSANITY!!!

I am on the vaginal sex side of that enjoyment over the doing it yourself, yet in my last relationship towards the end I did it by myself more (we were at a distance). I was lazy and wasn't trying to fix things, and she didn't suggest anything either and it became stagnating. We had many other problems and issues, but the fact that we didn't see each other often just led to sweeping the problems under the rug and trying to enjoy the time we did have together. After a while she just stopped talking to me, I picked up on that and then overcompensated for the attention. Needless to say she pretty much dumped me the next time I saw her, but don't let it get to that point where you are angry and resenting. Try new things, keep an open ear, and try everything and if all else fails, give them some space.

[livingsoul]

Can some other male confirm this? Because yeah, I find it odd, and definitey untrue in my house.

I will confirm

before I had sex I was actually interested in sex
Before I had sex I 'masterbated'

Now I have little interest in either
am celibate and abstinate

Probably depends on how attracted you are to the girl you are with
I was other than very attracted and the way I currently am is perhaps (most likely) a direct result of such

[flora]

Ok...Sorry this may be too personal of a question......

You said he seems to prefer anal sex videos? Is this something you enjoy as a couple?

[mDarkPoet]

It's not normal to prefer porn over sex if you have a significant other who is meeting your sexual needs, end of story