Why won't she reply?

[Kiechi]

I think the alternative is the only way OV will accept defeat

Hm, I have to agree. Good point.

[Only-virgins]

I think the alternative is the only way OV will accept defeat

Whats the alternative? rejection?

Only-virgins, you keep pointing towards the possibility of her not receiving it. If that is the case, then what is your course of action?

I don't know. Try again?

[misombra]

i say take this as a lesson to tell people how you feel about them while they're around. it's easier than what you're experiencing now wouldn't you say? i don't know how far you had to send the letter but here in the u.s. it takes our snail mail system only a day or two to get a letter somewhere. but you can't always expect a response, much less a favorable one, even if you have asked for one. that's just how it goes my dear. you told her and that's something. many people don't get that far.

[ALovelyLady86]

Ya even if the letter has to travel forever...as long as its in the US it should take NO MORE than 3 days.
She has the letter Tom..no doubt. Let it go sweetie

[Only-virgins]

i say take this as a lesson to tell people how you feel about them while they're around. it's easier than what you're experiencing now wouldn't you say? i don't know how far you had to send the letter but here in the u.s. it takes our snail mail system only a day or two to get a letter somewhere. but you can't always expect a response, much less a favorable one, even if you have asked for one. that's just how it goes my dear. you told her and that's something. many people don't get that far.

I did take it as a lesson. It thought me alot. Thank you for not bashing me too for going on and on. The letter got to her fast since it was given to her...not mailed. Well...she got it the next day if I got the right person. I don't expect a response I guess...I just think it would be the right thing of her to do. Just to tell me.

[Kiechi]

"Whats the alternative? rejection?"

Indeed.