"Why 'Nice Guys' are often such LOSERS"

[lovecot]

Love & relationship is always complicated. It is good if the story is summarised and make it easy for reader to digest and hence, render their help.

[Michael6084]

wow someone definitely revived an old post of mine

[lastwish]

I like nice guys. As long as they are good-looking. Someone can be a nice guy and have confidence at the same time. I know guys who are extremely nice and help others out but they don't have any self esteem issues.

I don't like how people stereotype nice guys as people who are totally helpless.

[Junket]

wow someone definitely revived an old post of mine

Well, it brought you back didn't it?

[kak]

I would just like to thank all of the constructive comments made on this thread, i had been hurting so very much from a recent breakup and the fact that i dont have a job - i am looking hard (yet i have a honours degree in property related studies) and live at home at the age of 25. i was getting emotional all the time and still sometimes do, but the 1st post really opened my eyes and showed what i did wrong and what i have to do to have a chance at attracting her back to me.

i am busy writing a post (long post though) for advice and i hope you guys will check it out. Anyways i just want to thank you again for showing me what an insecure person i became and really improving my emotional desperate state.