horrible break up

[BackUpOrGetStng]

classy guy, sounds like you know plenty about this world fyi anal is not something on her likes list and neither is oral without a condom

Who ever said she has to like it? I'm trying to get into this world, but you are being really stingy with her website. Have you asked how many clients she sees per day?

[bluenote99]

Either way I hope you use condoms with her because she could end up with a nasty client.

one of the ground rules we're working on, two weekly check up at the clinic and she must 100% use condoms at all times when working, not a demand i ever thought i'd have to make in a relationship but there you go

[IndiReloaded]

ok well at least you don't resort to abuse or filth to make your point as for her feelings for me i'm not sure myself, theres nothing else in it for her, she doesn't take money from me, she certainly isn't going short of sex for obvious reasons,she has plenty of friends so loneliness isn't a problem yet she phoned me begging me to give her a chance so theres got to be some feeling there

You really don't understand why??

You are her emotional tampon. Sorry for the crude phrase but that's why she sticks around. I really can't understand why you don't think you deserve better? Are you horribly ugly or overweight or something? Trust me, I don't even know you but you can definitely do better than this disturbed woman.

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Emotional%20Tampon

Here's one other thought: someday, you will break up with this woman. When you do meet a woman of quality, she is going to want to know why you disrespected yourself so much to stay in a relationship like this. You may be risking the love of your life to stay with someone you know isn't right for you.

For us women, we call is settling for Mr. Right-Now instead of waiting for Mr. Right. Don't do it, Diana.

[bluenote99]

Who ever said she has to like it? I'm trying to get into this world, but you are being really stingy with her website. Have you asked how many clients she sees per day?

nice to see you're back class-act, a likes list is the euphemism for what an escort is willing to provide and again no you won't be getting her details, i'm aware of when she works and how often thankyou

[bluenote99]

You really don't understand why??

You are her emotional tampon. Sorry for the crude phrase but that's why she sticks around. I really can't understand why you don't think you deserve better? Are you horribly ugly or overweight or something? Trust me, I don't even know you but you can definitely do better than this disturbed woman.

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Emotional%20Tampon

in every relationship partners soak up the angst of each other and provide support don't they and i have to stress this work is very recent to her we've been together a lot longer

[BackUpOrGetStng]

Damn, guess I'm not as knowledgeable about the field as you thought huh? You'll be an expert pretty soon here.

How many clients daily does she take? What's her hourly rate? Will she do things not on her likes list for extra money(trick question..of course she will)?

Does she charge you for services rendered? Seems only fair that you contribute.

[bluenote99]

Note, you should just leave her alone and find a better woman with a better job or at least trying to do more with themselves and who don't be letting nasty ass guys run up in all the time, because if you do it to a nasty person, it makes you just as nasty.

well love doesn't work that way for me i don't pick and choose who i fall for and i don't see her in any way as a nasty person i've never known her do anyone any harm, what she is is troubled and a bit wayward because of a difficult past

[bluenote99]

Damn, guess I'm not as knowledgeable about the field as you thought huh? You'll be an expert pretty soon here.

How many clients daily does she take? What's her hourly rate? Will she do things not on her likes list for extra money(trick question..of course she will)?

Does she charge you for services rendered? Seems only fair that you contribute.

wasting your time now, you're running someone down who you don't know for doing something you say disgusts you but with every post you're just proving more who the real reptile is

[IndiReloaded]

in every relationship partners soak up the angst of each other and provide support don't they and i have to stress this work is very recent to her we've been together a lot longer

No. You are completely wrong and naive about this.

Partners in *healthy* relationships lead each other to GROW. To uncover each other and help them to face their fears and build on their strengths.

Your relationship as described has NONE of this. Yours is the definition of dysfunctional. You will drag each other down. She doesn't trust you enough to come to you for help and would rather sell herself to strange men.

Really, you must be a troll. I sure hope so. If not, I hope you 'WakeUp' soon.

I'm not inclined (unlike you) to continue to offer help where it isn't wanted, so I will leave you with this thought:


If you want to soar with eagles then don't grub in the dirt, Blue.

[Starnique]

I understand. Seriously. My point is, is she willing to stop? If my bf wasn't happy with my job, most aren't, then I would quit if I was love with him. Ya know, I'd take his feelings into consideration.

[bluenote99]

I understand. Seriously. My point is, is she willing to stop? If my bf wasn't happy with my job, most aren't, then I would quit if I was love with him. Ya know, I'd take his feelings into consideration.

she is planning on finishing paying off her debts which will probably take another month or so and then quitting to go back to college which she is prepared to accept my support with,goes without saying but i pray for the day she quits

[IndiReloaded]

Hahaha, Stung is riding you b/c he thinks you are a troll or beyond spineless. What you post says you are one or the other and he's just having some fun posting hyperbole at your expense. Really, you deserve it for putting up with this situation (assuming its true).

Again, we are not the problem here. You post to the internet to get honest thoughts on your situation. I'd say you are getting your money's worth. Good luck.

[IndiReloaded]

she is planning on finishing paying off her debts which will probably take another month or so and then quitting to go back to college which she is prepared to accept my support with,goes without saying but i pray for the day she quits

Well, I will say it's a unique side career to have. Just think, in future when you have some extra post-xmas credit card debt she can just spread her legs for a few neighbours and in no time... no more credit card debt.

You might notice your kids look a lot like Bob your Neighbour, but hey....

[bluenote99]

No. You are completely wrong and naive about this.

Partners in *healthy* relationships lead each other to GROW. To uncover each other and help them to face their fears and build on their strengths.

Your relationship as described has NONE of this. Yours is the definition of dysfunctional. You will drag each other down. She doesn't trust you enough to come to you for help and would rather sell herself to strange men.

Really, you must be a troll. I sure hope so. If not, I hope you 'WakeUp' soon.

I'm not inclined (unlike you) to continue to offer help where it isn't wanted, so I will leave you with this thought:


If you want to soar with eagles then don't grub in the dirt, Blue.

well i must say in every other relationship i've been in and theres been a few i've been there for my other half to support them through difficult times and they've been there for me,life sadly isn't all about growing, you frequently hit obstacles along the way, i think its when you're not here for each other then you haven't a relationship left

[BackUpOrGetStng]

^^^Now, you're just an idiot.