There's that word I couldn't find earlier.. hah! Yes empathy... offers further understanding of those around you if you can 'put yourself in their shoes.' I have noticed that too... those without a sense of humor seem to be more self-absorbed. I guess having a sense of humor means you have to understand people a little better... perhaps from trial and error of what those around you find funny?Originally Posted by IndiReloaded
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03-01-09, 11:34 PM #61
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03-01-09, 11:37 PM #62
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My humour tends toward Monty Python and the cynical. I'm not sure I'm the best source for what is commonly funny.
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03-01-09, 11:38 PM #63
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Originally Posted by IndiReloaded
I actually didn't learn this...my exes and past dates...they were always uptight, snoooty men........which as you can tell never lasted long. This guy is actually the first one I've met who actuall does things like this, well other than my brother...but that's my brother
Boy you guys post fast!"Guilt is like a sack of bricks...all you have to do is set it down."
"No Expectations. No Disappointments."
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03-01-09, 11:44 PM #64
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Well, can we move on to your real issue then?
Do you like him back?Second thoughts can generally be amended with judicious action; injudicious actions can seldom be recovered with second thoughts.
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03-01-09, 11:53 PM #65
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Which I asked pages and pages ago. Originally Posted by IndiReloaded
Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?
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LOL i said yes right about 50 x up there Originally Posted by IndiReloaded
"Guilt is like a sack of bricks...all you have to do is set it down."
"No Expectations. No Disappointments."
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04-01-09, 10:45 AM #67
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Okay, well sounds like your issue is all good for now?
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04-01-09, 12:57 PM #68
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No, her issue isn't resolved.
She just wanted to bitch about why men aren't like robots.
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04-01-09, 01:26 PM #69
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Way to accuse someone without even knowing the person...I didn't wanna "Bitch" about how men are like robots cause I don't even knwo what you mean by that statement. Originally Posted by doppelgaenger
All I wanted to know is why some men or all or most men do that...that's about it...calm down...this is supposed to be a helpful site not a site to make people feel bad."Guilt is like a sack of bricks...all you have to do is set it down."
"No Expectations. No Disappointments."
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05-01-09, 06:42 AM #70
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Some people do those things just to brighten your day. If they see that you may be expressing yourself as if you are sad, etc they may joke around with you to get you to smile.
Others do it because they like you and want to see your response. Your response to them will show whether you like them or not. Then they can go to the next step of asking you out, etc.
I am wondering whether you truly like him. When he does those things do you accept the behavior or do you kind of move away from him? The way you describe him makes it sound like you two are not really compatible. You may like him but the attraction doesn't sound very strong to me.If you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best. ~ Marilyn Monroe
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If someone called your acting as that of a 3rd-grader, would you take it as a general question or a complaint? Originally Posted by sheepingly
Go figure.
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Yes! They all don't respect and hate women for being of female! Every single one of them! Originally Posted by sheepingly
Because they are men!
Evil, EVIL men!Don't cry, don't regret and don't blame
Weak find the whip, willing find freedom
Towards the sun, carry your name
In warm hands you are given
Ask the wind for the way
Uncertainty's gone, your path will unravel
Accept all as it is and do not blame
God or the Devil
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It depends on when/what he does......most of the time though when he does something playful I giggle or blush or etc. Originally Posted by lesa
"Guilt is like a sack of bricks...all you have to do is set it down."
"No Expectations. No Disappointments."
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06-01-09, 10:09 AM #74
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No!
He does it only because he doesn't respect you as a woman.
Because he's a man with their 3rd grade behavior.
That's the only rational explanation!Don't cry, don't regret and don't blame
Weak find the whip, willing find freedom
Towards the sun, carry your name
In warm hands you are given
Ask the wind for the way
Uncertainty's gone, your path will unravel
Accept all as it is and do not blame
God or the Devil
~Born to Live - Mavrik~
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06-01-09, 10:31 AM #75
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who doesn't like a person who can poke fun at themselves and you. it's the best part of life, if it makes you laugh then it's all good, if it doesn't then you have a different sense of humour. i like both sarcastic and playful humour. my dad is the perfect example. imo it actually shows maturity ( that life is not that serious) and intelligence and my dad has got worse with age, he's much funnier now that he's semi retired than he ever was.
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