Originally Posted by
Gribble
What meaningful stuff?
You cling to a tiny, insignificant speck hurtling blindly across the maelstrom of eternity. What can you possibly do that is meaningful? All you really can do is create gods in a vain and ultimately hollow attempt to convince yourself that existence has meaning.
If I implied reproduction is meaningful I apologize. It isn't. But it is the true (and only) goal of all life.
Just because I acknowledge the reality of my existence does not mean I'm going to march off to the nearest cliff and throw myself off. Nor does it mean I'm going to find a suitable mate to share my genetic material with. For better or worse, I am intelligent and capable of reason. I wouldn't be aware of any of the above if not.
I exist to reproduce but I choose to ignore that imperative. Instead, the focus of my life is to maintain the proper balance of chemicals to achieve that special cocktail that keeps my emotions neutral at best, while occasionally seeking to spike them into the positive. I live for self-gratification and pleasure. I acknowledge that everyone else is in the same boat as me. I see no particular reason to interfere with their pursuits in so far as they do not interfere with mine. That's my life.
I pursue hobbies. I read books borne from great minds in the hopes of gleaning at least a patina of their "significance". I seek the company of fellow humans for the pleasure and contentment it provides. In many ways I'm more liberated and active thanks to my beliefs than those who think life is meaningful, or who believe there's a god to grant them purpose and reward.
man, hat off to your explanation i could never make it as clear as u did.
But when my tiny little brain suggest "meaningful", i wasnt thinking about being meaningful in compare with the universal. I meant meaningful for yourself (i stopped trying to be a meaningful existence to the universal ways ago). In compare to all the galaxies and milky ways in existence, i think even the 7 billions people of the human race mean nothing at all.
All i want to say is just to find something that in the end, before u die, u think your life is at least meaningful to you... not "ok, im dying. bye bye life. Never really like u in the first place"
Last edited by valhensing; 17-09-10 at 08:14 PM.
keep it simple
Self-esteem isn't bragging about how great you are. It's more like quietly knowing that you're worth a lot (priceless, in fact!). It's not about thinking you're perfect — because nobody is — but knowing that you're worthy of being loved and accepted.
"Me, I try to send this note
float it like a paper boat
But paper sinks
and words are weak
i try, but i cant speak"