BF watches porn.

[carl1222]

LOL!! You've lost it.

Wow, what a great counterargument, CoCo ... You are going so far out of your way to be contrarian, you are staring to sound like elle used to at first!

Carl.

[Aeradalia]

Thank you!!! We are saying the same thing! The only thing I added is that i see it as a weakness if you can't overcome it for someone you love.

That's the disagreement CocoChanel... it isn't a weakness for a man to be unable to overcome this for the one he loves --- he shouldn't have to 'overcome' looking at other women, watching porn, or having sexual fantasies not involving his SO. His faithfulness to his SO should be enough... trying to control his thoughts is taking it much too far.

Be content that he's faithful to you and let that be the end of it... What does it matter that he may enjoy a bit of eye-candy? He comes home to you doesn't he?

It's not 'proof of his undying love' for him to repress this part of himself for you --- it's a sign of controlling girlfriend to demand he think only of her and no body else ever - in real life, on tv, or in his fantasies.

[CocoChanel]

It is a weakness and nothing you post will convince me otherwise. So you can give up now.

[Aeradalia]

It is a weakness and nothing you post will convince me otherwise. So you can give up now.

I've proven my argument... it's you who has the burden of proof.. and since you can only come up with 'nothing you can say will convince me' I will have to assume that you don't have a 'reason'... and your view is purely based on emotion --- "I don't like that men are this way and they should change for me because that's how I feel."

I pity the man that has to tailor himself to such a selfish desire as this --- have him change for you because that's what you want... and then guilt him into doing it to show his love.

[lesa]

And all of this comes from my comments about men and pornography... a woman with low worth? When most of you women in this post say it's not disrespectful for a man to be visually stimulated by pornography even though it's to the point where he has to jack off and ejaculate? If I agreed with you that would make me just like you.

No. I may surprise you with my view on pornography. What I meant was the way you stated your viewpoint. Pretend someone else wrote what you said and tell me what impression you get about that individual.

[CocoChanel]

No. I may surprise you with my view on pornography. What I meant was the way you stated your viewpoint. Pretend someone else wrote what you said and tell me what impression you get about that individual.

Why do you think I would surprised? What's your view on pornography.

[CocoChanel]

I've proven my argument... it's you who has the burden of proof.. and since you can only come up with 'nothing you can say will convince me' I will have to assume that you don't have a 'reason'... and your view is purely based on emotion --- "I don't like that men are this way and they should change for me because that's how I feel."

I pity the man that has to tailor himself to such a selfish desire as this --- have him change for you because that's what you want... and then guilt him into doing it to show his love.

You haven't really done anything but say your point of view and that's it. What you objective is... I have no idea. But whatever it is, it's not working with me. How I feel is how I feel. What's the point in repeating myself. You can re-read if that's the case. If I kept on going with you... what would that solve? Absolultely nothing.

[DoesntMatter]

Ladies, ladies (and carl)- stop bickering. There's plenty of my penis to go around and put you in good spirits

[CocoChanel]

LOL! Well it's not my fault people like to force their beliefs and opinion down other people's throat.

[vashti]

Just walk away!

[CocoChanel]

:/ Well Alright!

[Lite]

Maybe you think it's okay... but I don't.

That's because you have blatant double standards and you're OK with treating your partner unfairly.

[Lite]

When most of you women in this post say it's not disrespectful for a man to be visually stimulated by pornography even though it's to the point where he has to jack off and ejaculate?

Maybe you're just not worth sleeping with, and jacking of to porn is actually preferable?

Seriously, men jacking off and looking at porn could have as much to do with how they feel about you personally as cow farts sending the Space Shuttle into orbit. It really depends upon the guy, but most men jack off regardless of how much sex they are or are not getting. 5 minutes to relieve stress, or having to deal with turning the woman on, or hoping she's in the mood, and the cleanup afterwards. Then there's that whole ripping pubic hair out by the bunches when removing the condom.

Men jack off, women eat chocolate. Deal with it.

[Indignant]

No, she has to repeatedly tell herself that she's dating the one man on the planet that isn't like every other wretched man on the planet.

oh no, she has repeatedly humiliated him here before us.

[Indignant]

i can't believe i missed this thread! i am so glad coco is finally showing more of her true insecure self.