Originally Posted by
miSSleepy
Sorry ... I'm a woman.
I don't think Tiay will agree with that, and I don't think that's entirely true for the Wanker thread where you accused everyone of being threatened by you - by referring to how women react to other women.
You're doing it again, intentionally or not. What makes you think you have the power to make me feel bad about myself? Do you really believe I'm so insecure that some forum member's comments will make me feel bad about myself? Give me some credit here. And your apologies come off as very patronising.
Yes, put it behind us and continue with the constructive advice - just please realise that your experiences are not everyone elses and that not everyone is like you and not every woman is like the women you have known.
First of all, I think the is the most important point.. so if you're not in the mood to read.. you can skip the rest, but at least read this one.. I'm not patronizing.. I don't hold myself in a higher level than everyone else.. I don't understand how you can take what i'm saying to imply that.. perhaps it's the fact that words capture only so little.. I generally speak with a soft-moderate tone of voice. If we were sitting down face to face, you would never reach that conclusion because my facial expression & inflection really express what I mean, and I ment it honestly and earnstly.. not patronizing you.. not trying to make you feel bad.. just saying sorry.. because you can deny it all you want.. but for one reason or another, you ARE angry at me.. and I really am sorry...
second, the woman comment was not ment to degrade women, simply to show how members of the same sex react when they're threatened.. women call other women (b*tch) while men call other men (bastards/jerks)..
now.. what was "sorry i'm a woman" supposed to mean? I can tell you this.. if any one sex is more detailed-oriented, it's women.. so the fact that you're a woman means you should have picked up on all the subtle nuances and details.. (hence, why most guys just skip over long posts.. they usually think "fcuk that.. that post is too long.. i'm not wasting my time reading that, if his problem is that serious, let him either make his post shorter or seek professional help".. but women have a more compassionate nature and out of their need to care.. they are slightly more compelled to read..
anyway.. point being.. I really am sorry.. i'm not patronizing or trying to make you feel bad.. seriously.. I just want to get rid of this needless and pointless hostility between us that's all really..
Last edited by GrkScorp; 19-11-07 at 11:42 AM.
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