am i being messed with?

[Gigabitch]

Awe Christ...Can't you find someway to tell her you don't mind if she fulfills this fantasy...as long as you're in it as well?

Exactly. You guys should do this. She wants it. You want it. Then you'll have done it and you can get on with your lives.

[Mathias]

Exactly. You guys should do this. She wants it. You want it. Then you'll have done it and you can get on with your lives.

Yeah, no shit.

Dude, I passed up this opportunity once. Don't be me.

****ing do it.

[hal24]

well tonight we're gonna watch something adult. one thing cool is i think she may be just open now with her sexual feelings. she says she was relieved at my reaction. she says she thinks she is basically bi.(at least her attraction)she says she's more turned on by a hot girl in a bikini then a great lookin dude, but she actually is very attracted to penis.(which is probably not too common i'm guessing) thank god. ha. i'm thinking about the idea of getting a stripper but do they come for just 2 people? can u specifically ask for a certain type girl? and how do u know she will look like they say?anyone know? i'd love it if it was not very shady. i want this too be fun,playful and erotic . definitely not dirty.

[hal24]

thx for the input,vashti.

[Gigabitch]

Hal, you've got the girlfriend many other guys fantasize about. I hope this works out well for you.

[Katty]

Something to consider: maybe she is fabricating her interest to keep you happy. You said you had a lack of intimacy before which led to a breakup, and I know you have been trying to get her to watch porn with you, which is something she has not really been interested in, right? She knows the idea of two girls is exciting for you, so maybe she is lying.

I'm glad someone said this. It's pretty obvious.
On another note, when my boyfriend looks at porn, I tell him that it doesn't bother me, but it does. It makes me not want to have sex with him because I feel like he's thinking of those girls when we have sex. It's a complete turn off for me. I don't want to tell him, because he'll feel like he needs to stop. I don't want to tell him what to do and what not to do.

[hal24]

well,been gone awhile. long story short i got dumped and left out in the cold. my chick is now seeing the porno chick exclusively so she says. i should have taken some advice from people here. no threeway ever happened. the furthest it got was she came over and watched tv w/us and she watched my chick do a lap dance(clothed) and showed the other chick my member and stroked it some(but not even to completion).the other chick touched herself some. i'm sure they got together shortly after unless it was already happening. who knows. what a sucker i am though.

[Gigabitch]

Dude!!! You WERE being messed with!

[hal24]

ha. i admit that was funny. so messed up. not only do i feel like crap i can't stop thinking of the threeway that never happened. i'll have blue balls forever!

[hal24]

hahaha. the ex is getting her heart broken by porno girl. my ex wanted am exclusive thing w/her. according to the ex,she was the first chick porno girl has been with.now porno chick saying that the ex misunderstood things and loves guys and does'nt see herself having a long relationshhip w.a chick. ahahaha.

[Gigabitch]

Don't laugh! She sounds totally confused. At least you know who you are and what you want- she doesn't. Poor thing.

[hal24]

well i spent last night w/my ex. she comes over drunk and i totally cave. she totally took control during sex and was all vocal and it was just awesome.this morning she says how porno girl will only sleep w/her i it's with a third or more person. how whacked is that? lol. i think i'm in. is there any reason i SHOULD'NT do this ?

[Gigabitch]

Clearly there is, or you would have done it by now. What's your dilemma, hal?

[hal24]

i just feel this whole thing is weird. the ex sure seemed to enjoy the sex but it seems clear to me she would'nt be doing this if it did'nt mean a chance at getting into bed with porno girl. i know the porno girl is interested cuz she came over once and actually watched my chick stroke my dick in fornt of her and she sure seem to like it. i just feel for some reason that i'm gonna be left out in the cold and have the biggest blue balls situation of all time. i just wish she'd be honest. she said all these ridiculously hot things we could do during a threesome that she just would never say 6 months ago. it' like jekyll and hyde. i still like her no doubt and i know that's stupid but man, i really fantasize about the two of themm together too.

[chorus]

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