Calling all Ladies! - Need your input!

[Tedel]

you make it sound like those qualities are mutually exclusive...

Hey! Of course they ain't mutually exclusive! In any case, you just need to date me a couple of times,

[Tedel]

...a collection of quotes from the members...

Question: Which members? lmao!

[Tedel]

I think that you shouldn't forget who you are just because you're in front of a nice chick you want to know. Let your heart and sould be your attractive features.

Wisdom is the key, don't you think.

[Tiay]

You collect LF quotes??

Jesus! Why didn't we think of that??

We should create a funny LF quotes thread!

heh, well, I only have three or four of them so far, because I keep forgetting to collect them.

That would be a great idea! I thought of that too when she said that, how funny, a collection of quotes from the members. But there should be a way posting those that are truly funny or whatever right? Or a way people VOTE or the MODS decide kinda thing. Someone start something or get it started, its a great idea!

hm, yeah... I don't know how the voting thing would be done, besides making a HUGE poll. The other thing is that it takes time to collect quotes... we could challenge everyone to collect till, say, new years or xmas.

[brianbtn]

Girls want you to care about them, but not that much. If you act like you actually like them, they say you're too clingy. (I don't get it either.) Just be friendly, but act like it wouldn't be a big deal if they suddenly disappeared. And then every now and then you can say something sweet. Anything more is considered creepy, at least at first. I don't know why that's the way things are, but it's best to just accept it.

It took me a very long time to learn this. Here's a tip: never give a girl a gift that takes any effort or creativity, until you've been dating for at least a couple months. I wrote a girl I liked a poem once. I thought it would be sweet, but apparently it was the creepiest thing I could have done.

Women are just people. I know you think it's flattering to be put on a pedestal, but try to put yourself in their shoes. It would feel a little weird, would it not? Treat the opposite sex as equals. Remember, you deserve her as much as she deserves you.

You know its funny you say this I was once dating this girl for a couple months... Things were going good... Then one day I told her I loved her... She thought this was the weirdest thing and it freaked her out! Well things when down hill from there... What do you think went wrong? I did love her when i told her but it was more of friendly love ya goodbye sorta thing... Also I have been wandering about when is it A good time to give a girl a kiss on the cheek after a hug... I just cant tell and i dont want to wierd the girl out or nothing...

[EmoBlackBelt]

That's why I never say "I love you" first.

[Mish]

Experience taught me to never say "I love you" before having sex first

[brianbtn]

That's why I never say "I love you" first.

Yeah but hears the thing... she said it first a couple of days before I told her... so i thought it was ok but she only meant it as friendly lova ya and i guess i took it the wrong way? but i did love her and still do to this day!

[EmoBlackBelt]

Experience taught me to never say "I love you" before having sex first

That seems like an odd set of priorities. I would never have sex with someone without loving them first... But then again, I'm somewhat of a virgin, so I probably don't count.

[Mish]

That seems like an odd set of priorities. I would never have sex with someone without loving them first... But then again, I'm somewhat of a virgin, so I probably don't count.

You can love them in secret until then.

[EmoBlackBelt]

You can love them in secret until then.

Ah.