Originally Posted by
Jazz2010
Mishanya & Citycat::
I'm not being mean when I say this, but there is a big difference between oral sex and the real thing. I realize blowjobs are oral sex. I'm not that ignorant on the subject. Next time I'm just specify which sex I'm not ready for. I'm not ready for the vaginal sex. Oral sex has already happened. Usually one thing leads to another, but for me that's not going to happen.
All this talk has made me realize it's not worth it. I'm not ready, it's overrated, and it's just not worth the problems and risk.
In you particular case, because you are so young I say it's best to wait until you are ready. It' definitely worth it and the risks are marginal (provided you take proper precautions), but loosing virginity is a big step in your life and you should do it with the right person at the right time.
It was just funny how you originally worded it.
Last edited by Mish; 02-08-08 at 11:12 AM.
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