husband sneaks to look at porn to much.

[Mish]

jealous of dirty skanky sluts who want everyone watching them have sex. no, that is by far not whats going on. i wish not to ever have a dirty lifestyle like those std sluts in those porno movies. theirs nothing to be jealous of. who in their right mind would want to do that for a living? also i'm a good looking woman and by far a lot better looking then many of those gross skanks in those porns. the whole debate on men with porn addictions is that those who watch that crap are going to condone it and say theirs nothing wrong with it and those who live a clean cut lifestyle like me will not condone it and will not approve of it. i am a decent person who lives a VERY clean cut lifestyle. i'm not with a a man like that and thats why its a waste of time for me to be involved with someone like that. theirs no way 99% of men are porn watchers. i 'm sure their are some decent, good men out there.

I think that you are jealous of the fact that despite you having a "clean" lifestyle and being "so much better looking than them" your husband still goes to see THEM instead of you. In your mind it appears that you are asking yourself a question, what's so good about them that he can't get from me? This is where the backlash and the whole "porn is evil devil thing" is coming from. You just can't face up to the facts so you need to demonize it and by proxy yours husband in order to feel better about yourself. Your blind spot and jealousy can not reconcile the fact that decent, good men can still watch porn and at the same time be decent and good. You need to demonize them in order to not feel jealous and feel adequate about yourself. This is why a lot of the problems that you have are really your own insecurities.

[lastwish]

Sigh...if you can't beat them, join them! : D Naked firefighter and cowboy themed pornos are awesome.

[VincenzoG91]

my husband smokes cigarettes and shoots up heroin. how do I get him to stop smoking?

[Illusional]

WOW, you're so incredibly judgemental. It's your way or no way right? Damn, I'd want a release too!

wow we actually agree on something. i was going to say the same thing, but you beat me to the punch...

as i sit here staring at the screen.. i'm wondering if she in a jehovah's witness.

raverboy

[Caleb]

I agree with Illusional. I think that any guy would start watching porn on a daily basis if he was married to the iron maiden. I mean, he`s clearly not getting any.

[4dvz]

Yeah I agree too.. If OP finds it uncomfortable that her man is entertaining himself with pornsites, she should concider more about his sexual needs. As I wrote earlier, you shouldn`t ever expect a person to suppress his needs.

[Caleb]

I`m actually surprised he hasn't started river dancing his way straight into the coo coo`s nest. To me this whole thing feel like one of those "OMG, is she for real?!" kinda threads.

[xxazurexx]

Well I know one thing, she may be good looking (we only have her word for that)...but her personality and attitude seems to stink!!!

He's probably 'hen pecked' and probably asks her permission to go to the toilet.

[Caleb]

I can so see that happening! "Come on honey... we talked about this last week.. can I please take a s***?". LOL

[xxazurexx]

^^'Hang on a second, let me find the key to your cage first so I can let you out and where did I put that god damn leash'....

[Caleb]

Are you kidding? iv`e just finished going over one of her replies. She is one f**** up "iron bitch". She goes on about how clean her lifestyle is. Yeah, its clean... like an asylum

[xxazurexx]

^^And judging us as being 'immoral' in the process.

I honest to god do not know nor understand how some men will put up with this type of woman. I know her sort and because I've met her sort and they always have a 'mouse' for a husband, who is too scared to stand up to her and put her and her mouth in place.

Men do tire of it eventually though and they leave....and look for women who treat them 'nicely'

[VincenzoG91]

Maybe she was normal when they were dating. Then she lost her mind while preparing for the wedding and morphed into Bridezilla. He hung in there for years, hoping that she would calm down and revert to normal but has finally realized that she is who she is.

[blue102]

I dunno... some people have a problem with porn. I don't, as long as it is normal porn and not some bizarro stuff.... and not all the time, but once in a while I think is very normal. Heck, I look at it more than my husband does. Normal and OK imho

[Illusional]

I agree with Illusional. I think that any guy would start watching porn on a daily basis if he was married to the iron maiden. I mean, he`s clearly not getting any.

maybe his wife is as she said, "super hot and better than most of the girls" however if she doesn't put out, or she's a dead fish in bed, then i might as well jack off to some internet porn.


raverboy