I would like to know your thoughts;emotional abuse

[Yggdrasil]

Well, he just old me he's going to leave me, "when he feels like it"

How about YOU leave on YOUR terms?

Because eh.. he never will as long as you are willing to tollerate his abusive behaviour.

[Junket]

How about YOU leave on YOUR terms?

Because eh.. he never will as long as you are willing to tollerate his abusive behaviour.

That's why I asked about whether or not she's renting.

If there's a lease involved it makes things a little more difficult.

[Yggdrasil]

That's why I asked about whether or not she's renting.

If there's a lease involved it makes things a little more difficult.

Legal services will un-difficult that. (or at least they should as far as I know).

[Junket]

Legal services will un-difficult that. (or at least they should as far as I know).

But requiring legal services in itself is a complication.

That's my point, it's not as simple as "okay, leave".

Because you'll need a "but don't forget to mail your rent".

[Yggdrasil]

But requiring legal services in itself is a complication.

That's my point, it's not as simple as "okay, leave".

Because you'll need a "but don't forget to mail your rent".

Ok yeah, I see what you mean. Shouldn't be an obstacle or an excuse though, since there are ways out.

Either way, usualy the abuser doesn't leave, the victim does, unless the victim involved legal services, then the abuser does.

I'd still like to see the day an abuser leaves voluntary.

I know what I would do.

[bperry]

I'm truely sorry that you are going through so much. You mention that you didn't understand why you keep getting involved in these types of reltionships. It's become a cycle for you as sad as it may sound you have become accustom to this type of treatment. You need to walk away from the relationship and seek help for yourself. Until your able to talk to someone professionally about what's going on inside of you. Your going continue to get involved in these types of relationships.

[amz]

I know what u are going threw for 8 long years. You have to decide foryourself that you are worth more. Get help seak counceling. figure out why you put up with being treated like this. Every person on earth deserves to be treated with dignity and respect. Hopefully you will not hit rock bottom before standing up straight and tall and deciding you have had enough.