...or should we just wait for his money to trickle down to us?
baby ya hustle. but me i hustle harder.
a fool and his money are soon parted.
baby ya hustle. but me i hustle harder.
Hey not a fool anymore. I was really feeling stressed yesterday my heart started to tighten. I decided that I needed to express my concerns, as my body was not taking this well. I've been sick for several weeks and I'm not getting any better. I told her I'm pissed that no one ever gives me a break. Her ex is being let off the hook at MY expense, and it's killing me. The wedding needs to be postponed because I am in no position to marry this year. I told her I feel alone in that I have to bear everyone's burden, and I can't even find time to take care of my own body. She felt really bad, and regretted hurting me so much. This morning, she wrote an email to her attorney (cc to me) which instructed her to proceed aggressively to search out and garnish all of her ex's assets including his parents' assets that are put under his name. She told me she would have never gotten the ex's parents involved because they are old, and she didn't want to hurt them. But at this point she can't bear to see me hurt, so she is finally ready to do battle with her ex's family, with the intention of paying me back all the money I gave to her earlier. Also, she is looking at the job board now, because she feels that my wellbeing is more important than her schooling, so she requested a leave of absence today for a whole school year to help out with the household expenses. She insisted that we get married in November as planned, but no reception. Just us, our kids, at city hall. She told me she just wants to be my wife, and nothing else matters. I am thoroughly touched by her efforts. If any of you wonder whether she would pass the "test", she definitely did more than that. She proved to me that I am #1 on her list. I trust her with all my heart.