Wow, so many things to comment on. I guess I'll start with the weight issue first just because it struck a chord with me. I used to weigh 280 lbs. I am now 180, with a fair amount of muscle. Want to get there? DO THE ATKIN'S DIET! I lost 100 lbs in 6 months without excercising. Simply stay in the first stage of the diet as long as you can (I did it for 6 months straight). If you don't feel like reading the book the first stage mainly consists of eating less than 24 grams of carbohydrates in any given day. As far as she is concerned I think there is something else going on if she doesn't even want you to see her change. Self esteem does come to mind, but what about the possibility that she cheated and is pregnant? What about the possibility that she cheated and has an STD like genital warts, which she obviously wouldn't want you to see? I suppose it doesn't matter too much now since she left, but how long has this been going on? Also were both of you overweight when you met three years ago?
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