How do you bring up a looming issue?

[Benni]

Yeh, what he said! ^^^^^

[Way2Roux]

Evo, you're one of the few people that I have on ignore, simply because your arguments don't seem mindless, thus they don't seem to bother me. I PM'd that member to apologize. Regardless, it seems that most people are avoiding the topic. They either want to bash me or talk about how horrible drinking and driving is. I didn't ask if drinking and driving is a good idea or not. Everyone knows that answer to that. All of your sappy stories are heartfelt, but irrelevant nonetheless. The real question is if I should be giving him a second, even third chance? He hasn't done it since speaking to him about it, so I think we're on the right track. However, suppose he did do it again? It would be difficult to break up with him and very saddening because there's really nothing wrong with our relationship other than the fact that he is a careless driver. Will he change his habits for me? Probably so, but maybe not: that's where it gets hard

[Way2Roux]

Sorry, that was one of the few people who I DON'T have on ignore***