Yeah, usually the nasty white dudes who are excluded from the general dating population tend to be into Asian girls for some odd reason. They think they have an advantage over these innocent asian girls. But in reality, these poor white dudes are getting played. Asian girls are witty.... they just play dumb to get what they want. They only appear hot because you are unfamiliar with them. People tend to be fascinated by cute foreign stuff. Asian girls know that white dude only like them for their novelty. That's why they never get serious with a white dudes. There are plenty of eligible Asian dudes around, and if an Asian girl were genuinely hot and desirable, the white dudes wouldn't even stand a chance. Only the less attractive and motive-driven asian girls would date white men. Look around.... it's pretty obvious.
Preference is one thing, but obsession is another. Men don't always just focus on what they prefer. Often times, the chemistry right, and the man forgets what his "type" really is.
I am the perfect example. All my life I have been attracted to large breasted women. I have dated many women, but none of my serious relationships were with huge breasted women.
My first GF was A cup, then all the rest were C cups, including my ex-wife after she had 2 babies. When I met my fiancee, I totally thought she was a small B cup. She wore all black, and
she's really petite and thin. I fell in love with her all the same, because everything about her was perfect for me. It turns out she is actually a D cup, but wears a sports bra all the time
because she doesn't like people staring at her breasts.
Good lord. If it bothers you this much, dump him.
Won't have anything to do with Asian chicks, or his 'preferences', but your insecurities.
You know, I got a thing for hot chicks in general. Hell, a nice personality will get some attention.
If Asian chicks was his one and only thing, he wouldn't be in a relationship with you.
If that's not sufficient for yah, then dump him, and go find a blind guy to be with.
Green!
Here is the thing, ALL MEN LIKE BEAUTIFUL WOMEN. This does not mean he wants you to be asian. Like someone said before, it comes down to the whole asian school girl fantasy or basically just a fantasy of exotic women. Don't stress over it. If you continue to stress and snoop around he will get upset and probably leave you. If he does, then he just wasn't the right one and you can do better than him. Good luck.
The funny thing is, in one of my classes there are two white/asian couples that sit around me, and both of them are white female / asian male. Shattering stereotypes I've seen in this thread
Just cause there seems to sometimes be a fetish for asian chicks, doesn't mean the asians go for it.
I've seen far more asian male/white females couples. Maybe asian males are like other males.
Green!