Your on the first date and everthings going great until

[Only-virgins]

And OV, you are a hell of a lot more traditional than you admit. "I've gotta have me a virgin blah blah blah... girls these days can't keep there knees shut blah blah blah... why buy the cow blah lah blah." You sound exactly like my dad and grandfather did when I was growing up. Traditional.

I don't do any of that cause of tradition. Why buy the cow when you can have the milk is not tradition, it is logic. I am just borrowing the saying.

[anachronistic]

No he's not. He's just a horny teenaged boy.

shut up. you're just an old bitch with a wrinkly, sewed shut vagina

[vashti]

Oh, shut up! If sex isn't happening in the beginning it isn't EVER gonna happen? What about those people who wait until they are married? Your logic makes no sense. Some people just want to wait. I'm not one of them, but that doesn't mean they are sexually dysfunctional. It just means they attach a higher meaning to sex than you do.

[Tiay]

I didn't before I got married, Tiay. I figured I would just run off somewhere like Las Vegas and do it. My husband insisted we have an actual wedding. It was a nice day, but I certainly wouldn't do it that way again.

I figure I can just get married by state or whatever it's called, and then have a little do for friends– hypothetically. Can't really ask my SO, I think the M-word is off-limits

[vashti]

meh - you are too young now anyway, aren't you?

[Tiay]

oh yeah, of course; but one can still talk. It seems silly that I can ask friends how they see their weddings in the future, but I'd feel awkward asking him. I do tend to let my mind run away with me.. but I've literally been doing that since I was a little girl. and no, it's not the giant sparkly princess wedding type 'fantasy' at all.

[Only-virgins]

Haha lilwing pushed Vashti's button.

[Gigabitch]

oh yeah, of course; but one can still talk. It seems silly that I can ask friends how they see their weddings in the future, but I'd feel awkward asking him. I do tend to let my mind run away with me.. but I've literally been doing that since I was a little girl. and no, it's not the giant sparkly princess wedding type 'fantasy' at all.

Nothin' wrong with that.

Haha lilwing pushed Vashti's button.

If he so much as got near Vashti's button, he'd pull back a bloody stump.

[Gribble]

I bet Vash is really sexy when she's pissed.

[Junket]

I fantasize about having sex with my girlfriend constantly.

Yet when I'm with her, it's different.

I can't quite explain it other than saying I reach a level of contentedness cuddling with her I've never found anywhere else. I always suspected I'd just be focused on shovin' it in as soon as possible. But that kind of sexual frustration surfaces more when we're away from eachother and it's not even physically possible.

Yep. No logic to it at all.

[vashti]

Haha lilwing pushed Vashti's button.

He did? I must have missed it.

Frasbee, I find it hard to advise you these days. You are such an adorable sap! I'd hate to see you lose it.

[Only-virgins]

I fantasize about having sex with my girlfriend constantly.

Yet when I'm with her, it's different.

I can't quite explain it other than saying I reach a level of contentedness cuddling with her I've never found anywhere else. I always suspected I'd just be focused on shovin' it in as soon as possible. But that kind of sexual frustration surfaces more when we're away from eachother and it's not even physically possible.

Yep. No logic to it at all.

It makes sense to me. I don't know why either but I know exactly what you are talking about.

[Tiay]

I fantasize about having sex with my girlfriend constantly.

Yet when I'm with her, it's different.

yeah, that makes sense to me too.

is it me or do guys fantasise about sex more than women? do you make a conscious decision to fantasise or does it just happen?

[Converse]

I fantasize about having sex with my girlfriend constantly.

Yet when I'm with her, it's different.

I can't quite explain it other than saying I reach a level of contentedness cuddling with her I've never found anywhere else. I always suspected I'd just be focused on shovin' it in as soon as possible. But that kind of sexual frustration surfaces more when we're away from eachother and it's not even physically possible.

Yep. No logic to it at all.

There is logic in that; everyone wants something they can't have.

[Junket]

yeah, that makes sense to me too.

is it me or do guys fantasise about sex more than women? do you make a conscious decision to fantasise or does it just happen?

I think it's pseudo-conscience. Often for me, my mind wanders, or something triggers it, but then it's up to me whether I'll indulge the thought process or not.

She's gonna be here tomorrow...damn I can't wait.