I do not think that nature knows about education. Either way...it makes no difference. I don't think that there is some natural drive to take care of people
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Eh, well, perhaps education being a "necessity" simply reflects my own values. But I do think that (at least for many females) there IS a natural drive to take care of others.
Productivity in general is over-rated since life is pointless anyways but that is an entire different subject thats better not touched right now.
Yeah, wow - that really IS a whole other can of worms. Maybe it can be addressed at another time.
What is stopping me from breaking this commitment? Love? ..that can not be it since I believe now that I love someone else no? I understand absolutly were you are coming from because if I look at marriage as a promise. I have high respect enough for my-self to keep a promise but like my wise father always said .."dont make promises you can not keep". I will marry a girl if I feel also infatuated(love) for her. I cant just think she is nice and caring. After that comes my job to keep the promise.
Well, then, I don't really see where we are differing in our opinions except perhaps by what we call love. It seems that my definition of love matches your definition of marriage. Fair enough. And I agree it is nice to have this feeling when you marry. I guess the only question would be what happens when the "infatuation period" of love is over AFTER you are already married? Do you honor your promise anyway, or do you find another love?
Interesting. Well...I am 22 but I find it a bit offending. I agree that my sex drive is a bit high and all but I believe I still have logic and reasoning. Not everyone is the same. What do you mean by "inappropriately immature"?. My views may change but my fairness may not.
Oh no! Please don't be offended! That was far from my intent. Consider it a poor choice of words. What I simply meant was that not everyone continues to mature and progress at a steady pace, and ideally, adults of all ages continue to mature and progress unless there is some sort of maturity problem. I do NOT wish to include you in that population of people. As for the logic and reasoning, clearly you possess it, or I wouldn't be conversing with you at such length.
I may be older and later in life told to settle down by I may prefer to have sex with infatuated people and not bother with that ever. I have not had sex yet because I am holding out. Assume I reach this "age" that I am supposed to change my views...Will I not be a bit bitter about not enjoying sex earlier and avoid relationships that dont offer a good amount of it?
I'm not sure I get you on this. Are you saying that you may not ever bother to marry at all if you can't have infatuation along with marriage? If so, well okay. Works for me. Yeah, I think you WOULD miss the infatuation one feels in the beginning if you married without having had that.
PS: There is a button during your message writing that auto quotes things for you. It looks like this
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Its located in top right of the menu bar. Anything you drag and highlite with your mouse can then be quoted separatly with that icon button.