Originally Posted by
MrProblem
An 80-20 split? Bah I've never had that with anyone! Maybe I am the problem after all
My acceptable split is much higher than that again. I'm more like 95-5 as a minimum. And my actual relationship is damn close to 100. Hubby looses points because he comes into the living room at night when brushing his teeth and makes weird teeth brushing noises.
It's not so much about you being the problem if you haven't had an 80-20 relationship. The problem is you settling for something which isn't nearly good enough for you. Do you think that you can't do any better? Or are you truly attracted to women who need rescuing?
Never regret anything that has happened in your life. It cannot be changed, forgotten or undone. So, take it as a lesson learned and move on.