Texting woes

[sfalexi]

wait ! when did I ever make out with my ex ? And which ex are you talking about ?

Maybe it was just some old friend, but I remember those posts about you making out with some girl who was engaged to some guy in Florida. Then you felt bad and told us all that you weren't going to do it again because she's getting married and it's stupid and it's not what you would want done if she was YOUR fiance. Then you did it again.

Rod Steele

[BillyGalbreath]

ah yes.. Andira. yeah.... i did do that, didnt I ? oh well.. the past is the past. And she is just a friend. Well, not even a friend really.. Once i put my foot down and stopped making out with her she stopped hanging out with me. Meh, doesnt bother me none.

I still say all cheaters should die. At least the ones that dont learn from their experiences. I will admit, I've cheated a few times in my last relationship. But I felt horrible and I promised myself I would never do that kind of shit again. And I never did. I went the rest of that relationship without cheating. Unless you consider that threesome cheating.. then I'm screwed. LMAO

[sfalexi]

If that's the case billy, then maybe this guy should be given a chance too (provided he DID cheat ... )

[BillyGalbreath]

maybe so.. maybe so.. I'll leave that up to Karma to deal with.

[jakki2903]

maybe so.. maybe so.. I'll leave that up to Karma to deal with.

So, I saw him last night and absolutely no mark - if it had been a bite I think it would have taken longer then a day to go down, I was just being paranoid. I should learn to be more trustworthy. However, trust is something I feel should be earned - not just on a presumed platter??!!

[Anthony]

It should be earned, but generally it's earned -before- an involved relationship develops.

[jakki2903]

It should be earned, but generally it's earned -before- an involved relationship develops.

I guess so! Thanks for your reply Anthony.

[KirstyM]

Yes exactly he should have already earned your trust by this stage in your relationship, from the sounds of it, so maybe that's an area you need to work on.

[jakki2903]

I don't think I do trust him. Should I call it a day?

[jakki2903]

He had a text message last night at approx 10.30 - he didn't answer it and then someone called at 1.30am in the morning. He said it was his brother - probably checking he was staying out - but his brother never did it before???

[KirstyM]

I don't think I do trust him. Should I call it a day?

If that is what you want.

Dont you think you can work on the trust issue?

[jakki2903]

If that is what you want.

Dont you think you can work on the trust issue?

It's the opposite to what I want. In the past I have had the mobile text scenario happen to me before and I just cant have it happen again. It may all be innocent. Shall I mail and ask him??

[KirstyM]

Well why dont you explain to him that the mobile text scenario has happened to you before and as a result his actions have made you feel uncomfortable.