Originally Posted by
utbuntouchable
One of the most common things I ever hear is why don't men romance women anymore?
It's funny, before; I totally agreed to this comment but after years of experience and continuous research for my business and clientele - I have came to a conclusion.
Men stopped trying because women stopped as well.
If you look back historically; women use to go out of their way to seduce a man.
From head to toe: outfits, make-up, accessories and let us not forget the secret hidden asset - the classy lingerie....
Now a days; most girls wear nice outfits but underneath it's your regular bra and underwear... what's soo exciting about this? this something you find everyday and expect it from every girl b/c every one is dong this. - no one is different these days!!?!!
-- the point is; if you want to be romanced; in a relationship or not; you too have to put an effort. You have to think about all the details: from Point A were he sees you the first few seconds, till the last few seconds of being intimate with you.
-- and don't be afraid to do some traditional stuff "men" do - like getting roses when they have really went out of their way for you. I have done this a few times and you should see how i was pampered and romanced shortly after.
Tradition is great - lets keep them and find ways to use them in today's world.- lets be creative. Lets let love burn forever. let it be timeless.
I think the reason why people are giving you a hard time is because you are saying a lot of things which aren't true. I mean re read the first 7 lines, it's just ridiculous. Maybe this could apply to a couple of people out there, but not everyone like you are suggesting.
I appreciate the fact that you are trying to give some sort of a suggestion, but a lot of meaning is lost in incoherence. It would be a lot more accurate to direct your suggestions to some sort of a niche audience, granted your advice wouldn't sound as "universal" or ground breaking.
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