Originally Posted by
kcydrebma
I haven't asked him yet, because I want to ask it in real life and I haven't seen him since sunday. But I will, and I will post the response. Thanks for all the reactions I got from you all. I just don't believe that if -worst case scenario- he cheats on me and therefore hides the pictures, he would admit it? He probably would deny it.
Maybe I should indeed check if he hides our relationship status for others, that would be the dealbreaker for me.
Well, good for you for waiting until you are face-to-face because doing that via electronic means would be useless because you'd not hear hesitations, voice inflection or facial expression.
I'd hope that you'd know him well enough that you'd see by how he reacts to your question and any hedging that goes on that you'd know what he is saying to you legit or not. *shrugs*
I'd also hope that if he doesn't put them back up for you, after you ask that you would heed that red flag and dump his ass. That is the point of asking HIM. To ascertain what you should be doing with him.
I'm really looking forward to hearing his reasons for hiding you and he together. Should be interesting.
“The willingness to accept responsibility for one’s own life is the source from which self-respect springs.” ~Joan Didion