high school

[carl1222]

Hahaha ... our posts crossed. Sorry.

Congratulations. You asked her out on a date and she accepted, that's what you just did! A movie date is an easy one to pull off, just enjoy yourselves.

Keep us posted.

Carl.

[upper]

so what do i do? do i just go to theatre, watch movie, buy both of us something, leave/go home?

i know its not until next week, but what the hell. i dont know what kind of different mix of emotion i'm having now.

[ecojeanne]

my advice is enjoy the moment and calm down, worry about that later

and btw there is nothing to worry about: SHE LIKES YOU!!!!!!

[upper]

my advice is enjoy the moment and calm down, worry about that later

and btw there is nothing to worry about: SHE LIKES YOU!!!!!!

another question i have to ask. how do i be sure that she's not playing around and would stand me up? or am i just overthinking.

[carl1222]

WAY overthinking ...

[1averagejoe]

another question i have to ask. how do i be sure that she's not playing around and would stand me up? or am i just overthinking.

She wouldn't waste her time going out with someone she didn't like.

Just enjoy it...the best advice I can give you is talked to her like you would someone you've known for a while. As in try to feel comfortable with her. If you feel comfortable hanging out and talking with her, she definitely will. And that's a turn on for all people.

I think a movie isn't a bad idea for a first, first date. Basically it means you're not going to have to talk to much because you can't. It will get your feet a little wet and hopefully a little bit more comfortable with her for your second date.

[vashti]

When you take her to the movies, just talk about what kind of movies she likes, about school, about how she spends her time... don't worry; she will be worried about what to talk to you about, too, and she will try to help carry the conversation. After the movie, you can talk about whether or not you liked it. If you want to spend a bit more time with her, you can go get an ice cream.

Congrats, you have your first date.

[upper]

hey, cant thank you enough. i thought it was gonna be harder than this. it actually went pretty smooth-ish.

[vashti]

Aww, you are cute. I hope it is a lot of fun for you.

[kabaniel]

Back to the problem at hand....

Phones sucks. Talk to her at school in the hallway or in class or something. If she gave you her number she's obviously at least a little bit into you. Just talk about any old random thing. "Hey, how's it goin?" "How bout that nasty lunch?" "I think I found a fly in my chicken nugget." Anything goes. Your in High School so you both probably have a quite a bit in common. Same teachers, similar friends, same things going on in the same town, etc. And act confident even if you aren't. Take a few deep breaths, walk up to her, and, while staying focused on what she's saying, in the back of your mind think of something to keep you calm, like monster trucks or song lyrics. You can't be scared to talk to a girl who already gave you her number. Getting a girls number is the hard part, and you've already accomplished that. Good job!!
Good luck Upper

[Only-virgins]

lol he hung up on her.

[uncertain777]

Fun fact

Understanding someone's response comes:

10% - What is actually said
40% - Tone
50% - Body Language

I found this out from a laughing suite mate, but looking into things in that perspective, by calling on the phone, you get about 50% of the message the girl is trying to give. Definitely meet/talk in person if you can

Man your post is so reminding me of how I was back in High School. I'm in my Junior year of college, and not *that* awkward... anymore

[1averagejoe]

That's cute...I wasn't too fond of high school to be honest, but this brings back a lot of good memories.

Good luck!

[UKboy]

Get to know her in person in someways.once she's comfortable with you,tell her that you did once called her before you got to know you but you freaked out and also,felt that it was a creepy way to make friends with her so you approached her face to face.