Just because in your opinion from what you read I come off as cocky, does not make it so in the real world. While I express myself very eloquently from what you read, it does indeed come off differently in an actual face to face conversation.
And I have girls who still see me back from college. I actually shared a apartment with 2 girls for 3 years, and we never had any kind of misunderstanding. In fact, I still talk to them to this day.
As I stated, I'm like a Transformer, more than meets the eye.
Paul Cho