Changing your lover?

[vashti]

What sort of hairstyle requires cutting every 2 weeks?

My nephew gets his buzz cut done more frequently than 6 weeks, but then again, he is a Marine, and it's required.

[misombra]

i personally don't see why anybody would give so much concern to how often somebody cuts their hair.

if you're having a problem with that, you're in for a treat when bigger relationship related problems arise.

[pythongrace]

First off, to counter what most here are saying, I GET MY HAIR CUT EVERY 2 WEEKS. Unless you shave your head or take a 1 or 2 to it each time you get it cut, it starts to look shitty after a few weeks. All my roomates do every 2 weeks or so as well.

I don't think your request is very bad. You're just asking him to get a haircut...However, it depends on how you ask him. It also depends on how his hair was when you started dating. Was it like this from the beginning? Or, was it tolerable and now he just doesn't get it cut enough and it looks like shit?

If it was like this from the beginning, his thinking would then be that you were accepting of it before, so why aren't you know. That means you're trying to change him and that's kind of shitty. It kind of sounds like you're treating him as a project...Changing the way he dresses, trying to change his appearance, etc. It doesn't sound like you really like him that much, and more like you're trying to turn him into something you will like.

Thank you so much! Yes yes. A lot of guys do get their hair cut every 2 weeks. Okay when I first saw him, his hair was shitty he was unshaved, but I still saw the potential in him. He had the right facial features and he seemed like a nice guy, but not enough for me to give him a chance. But the 2nd time I saw him in school, he had a clean cut and he had the right clothes on, I thought "oh he's kinda cute." So you know I gave him my number. Well we talked for a few weeks and then started dating. We've been together for 2 months now, and in some of those days, he had such shitty hair some of my friends would say I look like Halle Berry next to him and that I can do better. I mean I would never tell him to get a haircut if I never saw him like that, nor would I ever tell him to dress up for me if I never ever saw him in fly clothes. I just want him to preserve the sexy.

[Junket]

he had such shitty hair some of my friends would say I look like Halle Berry next to him and that I can do better.

Are you 15?

Or from California?

Or both?

[pythongrace]

Are you 15?

Or from California?

Or both?

look, just I cuz I'm a very visual person doesn't mean i'm 15. I guess I'm just like a guy, they want everything: the personality AND the looks.

[Junket]

look, just I cuz I'm a very visual person doesn't mean i'm 15. I guess I'm just like a guy, they want everything: the personality AND the looks.

That's funny, you haven't said anything about his personality beyond him being a dork.

[pythongrace]

Are you 15?

Or from California?

Or both?

That's funny, you haven't said anything about his personality beyond him being a dork.

um...i did say he's a nice guy. And he calls himself a dork too anyways.

[Junket]

So why him?

You want looks and personality, right?

You haven't mentioned much about his personality, I guess there's nothing to be found at fault there?

[pythongrace]

So why him?

You want looks and personality, right?

You haven't mentioned much about his personality, I guess there's nothing to be found at fault there?

he's a really nice guy whom I know is not a player. He's really sweet and he listens. well except for the haircut part

[Junket]

he's a really nice guy whom I know is not a player. He's really sweet and he listens. well except for the haircut part

You mean he obeys?

You can't be real.

Seriously, characters like you can only exist in dumb shows like "The OC".

[pythongrace]

no i dont mean it like that. when i said listen i meant something else.

[pythongrace]

Seriously, characters like you can only exist in dumb shows like "The OC".

Seriously, characters like you can only watch dumb shows like "The OC".

i never even heard of that show. lol

[Junket]

i never even heard of that show. lol

You're a liar.

Or, you're from the UK.

[vashti]

Are you 15?

Or from California?

Or both?

Hey! I am from California! Don't paint us all with the same brush!

Anyway, I am guessing she is under 15.

[Startingover]

But I try to fix up my hair for him and dress up for him, why can't he do the same?

cuz he's a man! lol
seriously tho, you have to look at it this way "do I want a fight over his hair to cause a rift in a good relationship"