So... am I a jerk?

[Tedel]

Namari, you are not a jerk, you are a woman who is wondering whether she needs to keep a relationship that doesn't satisfy her or not.

As for him, tell him your opinion but accept the fact he won't understand your words. If you have lived under some circumstances all your life, it is hard to believe they are not normal later. By means of example remember "The Trueman Show" or "Matrix" movies.

[thefallenheart]

or we could all just pretend that movies are not real life and stop trying to judge ourselves to a standard that is skewed for entertainment pourposes.

[Tedel]

Yeah, that's also an option.