i dont think not liking her past makes you an insecure person. to me sex is an emotional thing that should be shared with someone you care about and trust. i would only date a guy who shares the same view as me coz i think people who would randomly f**k anyone when they are single-are less trustworthy in a relationship. that is my view so this would be a deal breaker for me. its obviously a deal breaker for you too but instead of dumping her so you can meet someone who is more compatable with you-your gonna stick around and secretly hold the past against her coz your afraid you wont meet someone else. that makes you a doormat
"Don't ask a question if you can't handle the answer".