Is it acceptable that my ex-bf called me a horrible name after my accident?

[IndiReloaded]

I might consider his apology if he actually made one. Sending her a text after finding out she was in the hospital all night, and then only to give a lame 'sorry' and go on to explain HIS feelings about the situation? This is a selfish guy. I mean, not even a phone call? Or actually showing up w/flowers?

In my world, a sincere apology states a clear acceptance of responsibility for the mistake (I'm sorry), an understanding of why the person receiving the apology was hurt (so perhaps it can be avoided in future), and some form of making up for the trespass ('I will fix this').

This guy doesn't care to do any of this. In my opinion, this is a pretty major character flaw. This guy is a dog that needs retraining. They've only been dating 5 months. I don't see why she would take on this project given the general tone of their relationship. Not worth the effort.

[LadieNisha4u2nv]

I'm with eco and vashti when it comes to his outburst out of anger(maybe she has done it before or maybe he's just an angry person) At the same time, I agree with Indi because if he had been so concerned about her, he would rush to the hospital and make sure she is doing fine.

One thing I can say about my boyfriend is he would never turn his back on me, even if we broke up. Yesterday we argued in a heated arguement. I was at work, I felt this sharp pain in my back, and went to the hospital. I called him, he took a taxi down town immediately and was by my side through it all.

If this guy was not so self absorbed in his own feelings, I guarantee he'd be by your side right now.

[lesa]

So when you get right down to it we are still talking about character. Don't try to change him in your mind. We don't know what he would do "If" in a situation. However, we know what he did in THIS one. He is telling you how he is.