Ok so hes into you and likes to kiss you. If he stops w/ just making out with you then I wouldn't assume right away hes using you. But if he starts peeling off your clothes or taking off his clothes then thats another story....Originally Posted by Sorrowfullgodes
When I was 17.....and a virgin I was dating this 19 yr old. I made it very clear to him I didn't want to have sex. Well he would start making out w/ me and once things went kinda fast and he was naked. (He took off his clothes on his own) I'm all like WTF and stopped things immediately and told him to get dressed and he left after that. I never did see him again..... and later found out from my friend that he was asking her bf for condoms for when we had sex.(which wasn't gonna happen anyways and didn't) Now that is someone who was just looking for sex.
Please make it very clear to him that you wanna wait. He's gonna try all he can to get you to change your mind......but you have to stick with what you feel is right. Listen to your better instincts.. If you are feeling like hes using you then chances are he is.
Even if he does love you........(which its way too early to tell let alone feel that).....that certainly shouldnt change things. Stick to your guns...