Guys read please.

[Gigabitch]

You are my Philly cheesesteak, baby!

[Junket]

You are my Philly cheesesteak, baby!

I think that's the most flattering compliment I've ever heard.

[Henry123]

Guys, How do you show a woman your interested in her?
I'm talking verbal and non verbal ways of showing interest. I want to find out if different personalities have different ways. SO. Lets hear em...

For me I would end up simply talking to her more often. Sort of intrude into her life more.

[Henry123]

Giga has a habit of making me hungry for food.

[Gigabitch]

I'm dating a chef. He tells me what he's cooking for dinner and it's like food porn.

[Junket]

I'm dating a chef. He tells me what he's cooking for dinner and it's like food porn.

Whatever we ain't dumB, we all know the only thing you're lookin' forward to is the "dessert".

[Gigabitch]

Heh heh. Over the phone, I have to take what I can get. Last night, he made Tom Yum Gai. I just LOVE that he cooks.

[vashti]

I can't blame you, Giga. That is a HUGE plus.

[jurupa]

I'm dating a chef. He tells me what he's cooking for dinner and it's like food porn.

Food porn? Uh okay........................

I can't blame you, Giga. That is a HUGE plus.

I can cook to you know. Granted I only know how to make three things (2 chicken dishes and a desert dish), but thats pretty good for a non chef like me. And if your wondering all three are from scratch. No store bought box where you add water and cook for 15 minutes.

[whitedragon20na]

I'm pretty shy, so I will sit back and look at her. Sometimes try and catch her gaze, maybe flash her a smile.
Now if I actually grow a set, I'll go over and say something to her, but that's few and far between.

Yea, I'm a wuss.

[King Zarathu]

I can cook Lebanese food.

Lebanese food > *

Therefore,

Me > *

[CAM]

Eye contact is a big thing for me. If I make eye contact and the contact is full-on returned to me by her eyes....my message has gotten through and she is saying the same to me. I absolutely love conversations in the past with women I have liked alot, where we are just so locked into each other's eyes that the gaze is not broken during our conversation or when we're dancing. Obviously, one looks down to grab their cocktail or an appetizer at some point, but long eye contact is one way. If the contact is returned, it is usually followed by a kiss within five minutes. I wait for the sign from her that it is okay to make that move...I'm not a greedy kisser, but I like to show I'm interested that way, too.

[Ellynn]

I've recently noticed some of these signs that you guys have talked about with a guy I know. We have had conversations in the past where we would be talking about something and then complete silence and we are just looking into each others eyes and just smiling.
I caught him staring at me many times from afar, even a few times out of the corner of my eye. He was smiling at me and looking down and then up again shyly at me and I was in a large crowd of people. Then, I made eye contact with him, and he wasn't smiling as much, but just looking at me. I acknowleged him by making eye contact, but looked away. I didn't want to be so obvious. Its just that now he is being obvious, ever since I had to do an evaluation on him and I wrote for him not to be so critical of himself and that its ok to make mistakes. Then I added a smiley face to my comment. Now, its like he is making more eye contact with me and staring more etc. Do you think he is interested? I'm not exactly in a good position to pursue anything further with him right now, but how should I deal with this? Its driving me crazy. Am I insane for thinking he might possibly like me? I mean why else would he do these things?

[michaelmorgan]

If you can't go for something right now, then postpone it and keep acting as you already do. If you don't want to go for it, not even in the future, then start mentioning a "boyfriend" during a small talk or something.

Office romance...and we thought love is complicated I never thought a smiley on a paper can unleash such desire in his heart. Today's men..lost in a corporate world without testosterone...

PS: what attracts you more in a man, shyness or confidence?

[Gigabitch]

Am I insane for thinking he might possibly like me? I mean why else would he do these things?

You're insane for questioning it. You waste a lot of energy doubting that you are attractive- clearly you are.

The question is, what are you going to do about it? And did that touchy-feely guy start keeping his hands off you, or what?