Right Girls - Give me Romantic Gift Ideas

[Mish]

Really wasn't what I was looking for.

Why does a relationship with a married woman bother people. Its my life.

Now come a few nice gift ideas - that is all I want.

I found it interesting that OP raised this question here. In my mind it's similar to someone creating a thread asking for best ways to mutilate kittens and then state that it's their life and wonder why there is resentment towards this behaviour.

Esentially what OP is asking is of a similar nature, he is asking for advice on how to best destroy lives of four people including his own, I find it very strange that he failis to understand why there is a resistance to that idea.

[Tashi]

It IS his choice. The thing that makes me feel sad, is the fact that it isn't only hurting him, but 3 others as well.

Seriously, this is a LOVEforum. While your ideas may not be wrong in your head, they definatly aren't right either.

If you want help, you need to find someone who shares your belief. Which I don't think you will find that easily. While it seems normal to cheat, it still makes you an idiot.

I know I am a guy, and most likely shouldn't answer here, but if it was my girlfriend who was cheating with you, I would kill you. And I am not kidding.

Cheating is equal to molesting in my book. Me getting raped by you would hurt as much as it would hurt me to know you are cheating with my fiancee. If not less. And don't get me wrong, I'm not saying it is always the boys fault, cause the girl has just as much guilt in this as the boy has, unless we are talking about rape, which we obviously aren't. To me, it just sounds like you are the one making all the moves, which makes you the main villian.

I agree with the others on this, I don't want to be your accomplice either. You may be right that it is your life and your marriage, but remember you can't be married alone. Your wife will suffer when (not if!) she finds out, and by then i hope she cuts off your dick. A weak revenge, but hey, she have been your wife for 15 years right? so she may be kind to you. I already feel sorry for the poor lady. I fail to see how you can live with yourself. Why not try telling your wife? look for the reaktion? Hope(or pray) she doesn't cut off your dick? if you are (VERY) lucky, she may actually accept it. But keeping something like this behind her back CLEARLY shows you are neither serious about your marriage, nor mature enough to take responsibility. And most importantly, it shows you simply don't love your wife.

But, if you want to give her a romantic gift that will **** up You 4's life, why don't you try with a ring? propose to her. Why not? You seem to like her more than you love your wife anyway.

Sorry if I am being mean/evil, but that is just the way i react when i see idiots like you.

[Cain]

It IS his choice. The thing that makes me feel sad, is the fact that it isn't only hurting him, but 3 others as well.

Seriously, this is a LOVEforum. While your ideas may not be wrong in your head, they definatly aren't right either.

If you want help, you need to find someone who shares your belief. Which I don't think you will find that easily. While it seems normal to cheat, it still makes you an idiot.

I know I am a guy, and most likely shouldn't answer here, but if it was my girlfriend who was cheating with you, I would kill you. And I am not kidding.

Cheating is equal to molesting in my book. Me getting raped by you would hurt as much as it would hurt me to know you are cheating with my fiancee. If not less. And don't get me wrong, I'm not saying it is always the boys fault, cause the girl has just as much guilt in this as the boy has, unless we are talking about rape, which we obviously aren't. To me, it just sounds like you are the one making all the moves, which makes you the main villian.

I agree with the others on this, I don't want to be your accomplice either. You may be right that it is your life and your marriage, but remember you can't be married alone. Your wife will suffer when (not if!) she finds out, and by then i hope she cuts off your dick. A weak revenge, but hey, she have been your wife for 15 years right? so she may be kind to you. I already feel sorry for the poor lady. I fail to see how you can live with yourself. Why not try telling your wife? look for the reaktion? Hope(or pray) she doesn't cut off your dick? if you are (VERY) lucky, she may actually accept it. But keeping something like this behind her back CLEARLY shows you are neither serious about your marriage, nor mature enough to take responsibility. And most importantly, it shows you simply don't love your wife.

But, if you want to give her a romantic gift that will **** up You 4's life, why don't you try with a ring? propose to her. Why not? You seem to like her more than you love your wife anyway.

Sorry if I am being mean/evil, but that is just the way i react when i see idiots like you.

Would you kill your fiance too?

[IndiReloaded]

Flowers for your WIFE, for putting up with all your shit? And a card apologizing for breaking your wedding vows?

If you were my husband, I would make you cut off the tip of your baby finger. And then each joint & finger tip to follow for every time you cheated.

I would also give you the option of divorce. Your choice.

[heavnlyblu22]

Do you have any kids? If so, the wife wouldn't be the only one who would be affected. I caught my dad having an affair and it pretty much messed up everyone and everything about my family. You really should think about the possible consequences of your actions. People tend to cheat because they're bored or lacking something in their relationship. If something's missing in your marriage, man up and either fix it or end it. Don't just fill the void with another woman - that's not fair to anyone.

[1averagejoe]

Awww blue . That guy sounded like a complete dick. I don't see how anyone could cheat on someone as beautiful as you.

As for cheating...it sucks to be on the receiving end of it all. Do you have kids with your wife? If not, don't have any.

Why? Because this will not end well. Like other said, it's only a matter of time till she finds out. Don't get children involved in this. If you do have kids, I feel sorry for them. It's a shame. Also you're not in love with this woman, you're infatuated with her. Period. Your physically attracted to her, nothing more. You don't love your wife because you're cheating on her. Ask yourself how she would feel if she find out, excuse me, when she finds out. She WILL BE HURT. There's no doubt about it, it tears a person apart. Like Bluesummer said, it completely destroys your world. Just functioning day to day is almost impossible. Would a loved one hurt someone like that? I think not.

I'm sorry, but you sound like a horny high schooler that never matured.

[Tashi]

Awww blue . That guy sounded like a complete dick. I don't see how anyone could cheat on someone as beautiful as you.

As for cheating...it sucks to be on the receiving end of it all. Do you have kids with your wife? If not, don't have any.

Why? Because this will not end well. Like other said, it's only a matter of time till she finds out. Don't get children involved in this. If you do have kids, I feel sorry for them. It's a shame. Also you're not in love with this woman, you're infatuated with her. Period. Your physically attracted to her, nothing more. You don't love your wife because you're cheating on her. Ask yourself how she would feel if she find out, excuse me, when she finds out. She WILL BE HURT. There's no doubt about it, it tears a person apart. Like Bluesummer said, it completely destroys your world. Just functioning day to day is almost impossible. Would a loved one hurt someone like that? I think not.

I'm sorry, but you sound like a horny high schooler that never matured.

I couldn't agree more with you. Especially the end. Grow up. I'm still in high school as well, and even I know it is stupid.

And no, i wouldn't kill my Fiancee, because i love her. Even though she hurt me badly, I wouldn't kill her. I wouldn't even harm her. If I did anything to anyone other than the guy she was cheating with, it would be myself. Call me mentally disturbed, it may just be what I actually am.

I fail to see why people see cheating as exciting. Why? Do you really like hurting people that much? What other hobbies you have, molesting kittens, puppys and other young animals? Or do you prefer to torture kids? I bet you are a math teacher. (LOL just joking, just have bad experinces with math teachers >.<;;

[Toby]

Thank you for all your replies - Sorry that it has annoyed so many of you.

I will reflect on what has been said. However I truly love this woman and our relationship is not something I want to lose

[Cain]

Thank you for all your replies - Sorry that it has annoyed so many of you.

I will reflect on what has been said. However I truly love this woman and our relationship is not something I want to lose

Then divorce your wife and stop being a selfish asshole.

[bluesummer]

Read what Cain said, again and again until you get it straight. If you love this other woman so much, MAN UP AND GET A ****ING DIVORCE.

If I were your wife, I'd SO pull a Lorena Bobbit on you.