sexuality vs. beauty

[1averagejoe]

I'm with DM here...post a picture.

[Jbleezyj]

yes picture please.

[Charlie Boy II]

some women are women they ooze feminity. They move like a cat. Just looking at the way they sit on a chair, or look at you when you're talking to them. The way they smell.

Other women seem stiff and uncomfortable in their own skin. Even if they have pretty features, they don't stir carnal insincts.

[Mish]

Yeh, I've known women who feel uncomfortable with being women. I've never understood that type of self loathing.

[Gigabitch]

Yeh, I've known women who feel uncomfortable with being women. I've never understood that type of self loathing.

Are you serious? Just my mother's influence alone, let alone all of the conflicting messages in the media about how none of us are ever, ever good enough was enough to give me a big complex about embracing my own womanhood... and I'm not even Catholic.

[Aeradalia]

Yeh, I've known women who feel uncomfortable with being women. I've never understood that type of self loathing.

Aside from abuse of some kind... I guess I could see women enduring a form of self-loathing because they tend to measure themselves against others they consider 'ideal'... rather than be happy with their own form of uniqueness - flaws included.

[boobaa]

Beauty is genetic... sexy is all attitude...

Wrong answer. Ugly person can't be sexy.

[Aeradalia]

Wrong answer. Ugly person can't be sexy.

Tell that to the 'big and beautiful' women that have men lining up to be with them (in public - now mind you). Or any other woman who was lacking in intense physical beauty but have men seeking their affections - genuinely wanting to have these women.

[boobaa]

You mean people like DM?
And also, sexyness depends on beuty, but beuty depends on each person individually, it is very subjective.
Maybe you are mistaking class for beauty also, who knows..

But "Big and beautiful" lmao, America just doesn't have a joice, does it.

[Gribble]

I'll always take a beautiful woman with intellect and an upbeat personality over some chick who slinks around in a dress desperately trying to emulate what she sees on television. I want a human being, not a sexbot. Not to say I wouldn't **** a girl who was all sex appeal and nothing else, mind you. I just can't imagine wanting to spend time with a woman like that outside the bedroom.

[Gigabitch]

I'd rather be called sexy than beautiful

But honey, you don't have to choose! You've got it all!

Wrong answer. Ugly person can't be sexy.

Some people find Paris Hilton sexy and she has the face of a whippet.

[Mish]

Aside from abuse of some kind... I guess I could see women enduring a form of self-loathing because they tend to measure themselves against others they consider 'ideal'... rather than be happy with their own form of uniqueness - flaws included.

But these women felt bad about being women in general and not about their own individual personalities. You know, some even came up to me and asked "Can you tell me what are the advantages of being a woman?" which was followed by a few awkward stares into the distance on my behalf and "so, what did you get up to last night?"

I have no idea how to respond to women who ask that and I have been asked that a number of times by a number of them.

[Aeradalia]

But these women felt bad about being women in general and not about their own individual personalities. You know, some even came up to me and asked "Can you tell me what are the advantages of being a woman?" which was followed by a few awkward stares into the distance on my behalf and "so, what did you get up to last night?"

I have no idea how to respond to women who ask that and I have been asked that a number of times by a number of them.

I can't help but to wonder if these women have the 'grass is always greener' mentality when they look at males. This comes down to the age old battle of the sexes and social pressures. Men and women are equal, just different... repeatedly it can be shown that a male have a natural tendency to be better at some things than a female... but usually what a male isn't naturally good at... a female will have more of a natural inclination towards. Social pressures from the past had put men as dominant and women as submissive... and modern times are still in a transitional phase - leaving quite a few women unsure of what their roles in society are.

If a woman asks, 'What are the advantages of being a woman?'... tell them the advantages are limited only by their imagination. - This should inspire them and get you off the baited hook they have set...

[Mish]

If a woman asks, 'What are the advantages of being a woman?'... tell them the advantages are limited only by their imagination. - This should inspire them and get you off the baited hook they have set...

I remember saying something along those lines, but it was taken as not a good, realistic example. Like backing out of the conversation. It's a minefield.

[Aeradalia]

I remember saying something along those lines, but it was taken as not a good, realistic example. Like backing out of the conversation. It's a minefield.

Ohh.. those kind of women... yeah, I understand you now... not much you can do, because they either hate being a woman so much and won't let reason win against emotion... or they hate being a woman and secretly hate males too... so they won't let you win either (because it would be one more win for the 'male's team')

About the most you can do is try to change the subject or hopefully, find a female that can really 'get it through their head' that there are good things about being a woman.