Originally Posted by
Gratedwasabi
College changes people. I know it's a cliche response but it's true. A lot of people get to college and suddenly there are tons of people, all this stuff going on, etc etc. It might not have affected you but it seems like it did her (probably moreso because of the distance.) It's hard and it's not fair and it sucks.. but you need to move on. You need to move on completely. Don't "move on" while just hoping she contacts you. Make a decision in stone that even if she were to try and contact you you'd ignore it. MOVE. ON. It's for the best. It hurts for a long while but it helps to really make that decision that "hey, she doesn't want to be with me? Fine. I'm done with her. Period."
It hurts to hear but whatever you think you had, you didn't. Every relationship you lose unwillingly looks better in hindsight; every single one.
You'll survive. Don't let some chick that doesn't know a good thing when it smacks her in the face for 3 years bring you down. You can and will do better. Period.