Need some help

[Poetic_Partner]

"...There is no better way to show her that I actually do care for her, than taking a two hour trip to see her when she needs support..."

Be careful here that you don't come to feel you're entitled to her affection. It can happen to the best of us, and can sneak up on you.

The heart does not (mostly) operate via a ledger sheet, nor should it. Keep in mind that any kindness and friendship you give has to be for the sake of doing what's right for a friend, not to get some good points.

I really don't think you're doing that, but something to be mindful of.

Hope she gets better soon.

-PP

[Soulhelper]

Man ! Don't do anything about the guy ! Simply hang out with the girl, and when this bullshit comes, you simply kick the guy's ass ! (oups, sorry for being rude !) ı hope you know some martial art techniques ! If not, then find a hapkido course somewhere in your area !

Or, you can simply get over that girl, and find another one !

Anyone !
ıf you have any relationship problem or questions, you can send me a private message ! I'l be glad to help you if I can

[googeter]

She was supposed to be released today, but they extended her stay there. I seriously hope everything is alright...I'm too stressed out, I can't eat or sleep since this started happening. It's driving me insane. She said she was feeling better yesterday, but I haven't heard from her at all today, at least not yet. I don't know what's going on and it's driving me insane. I'm going to visit her tomorrow if they extend her stay yet again. I just want to know she's alright...

[googeter]

"...There is no better way to show her that I actually do care for her, than taking a two hour trip to see her when she needs support..."

Be careful here that you don't come to feel you're entitled to her affection. It can happen to the best of us, and can sneak up on you.

The heart does not (mostly) operate via a ledger sheet, nor should it. Keep in mind that any kindness and friendship you give has to be for the sake of doing what's right for a friend, not to get some good points.

I really don't think you're doing that, but something to be mindful of.

-PP

I don't feel like she has to give anything back to me AT ALL...I am genuinely concerned for her well being, maybe a lot more than I should be, but it's extremely hard for me to deal with this right now. I don't know how to go about it. I started smoking again...it calms me down, yet I kick myself for doing that. I don't want anything in return from her, all I want to know is that she will be alright, but she's been in the hospital for a week (as of yesterday)...this is excruciating. I can't take this anymore, without her, a part of me is missing, or at least that's how I feel.