Should I say yes to dating him?

[Sunnybeach7]

Sunnybeach, shut up.

Sure... you first

[chump4u]

If you already know in your heart and in your head that everything's OK, and that there is no problem with you dating your former cheating partner and ex-brother-in-law, why are you cluttering the internet with your question?

If you asked the question to see what others would think about your proposed dating, well, you've found out what others would think. You oughtn't to complain about getting honest opinions when you asked people to give them to you.

If you asked the question hoping to be encouraged to do something you suspected to be fundamentally wrong (not to mention just a bit sick and perhaps evil) then you failed to get your encouragement, but you had your suspicion confirmed, which might be a much better result than encouragement would have been.

Anyway...

I do disagree with the post that said if you go ahead with your lover/cheater/ex-BIL you'll be "burning your bridges." I think you burned your bridges years ago when you cheated on your husband with his brother.

If you stay with that loser, you're not going to burn a bridge, you're going to set the whole damned river on fire.

[vashti]

FYI... Joseph, the owner... not love admin is in Oregon... not in Malaysia or California, ya dip!

Oh, damn! I guess I've been fcuking the wrong e-penis!

But I bet Joseph doesn't like crybabies, either.

[sweetkissesforu]

I dont think that is a good idea i think you and brother are losers you dont do that to family

[sweetkissesforu]

In my experience, anyone who claims to be a guru, which I would not do, is the farthest from being one.

You don't know anything about the situation, or how the child feels about the uncle, or if he would make a great father to the child.
Are you also claiming to be a child psychologist?

Nothing wrong with offering your opinion, but that is all it is. Your opinion. My opinion. A few others opinions. Ultimately this person will make their own decision.

Most agree bad idea they should not to many people are involved here

[sweetkissesforu]

She already said that her ex approves of the relationship? How is that being disrespectful?
Your comment however is disrespectful to the original poster.

Dont forget marriage is scared
these two step over the i boundaries wrong it happened
they fell in love could be soulmates could be just a case of lust
that man slept with his brothers wife
their family get togethers children others in the family with their biases
how comfortable will that be
all i can say they should keep it quiet and discreet

[sweetkissesforu]

That's signature worthy!

Perfect Sig

[sweetkissesforu]

If you log on to a public forum with a story like this, you can expect to get some strong opinions. Personally, I agree with whoever pointed out that the kind of guy who would sleep with his brother's wife isn't a good guy. Then again, he's getting you, a confirmed cheater, so I guess you deserve each other.

And Sunnybeach, don't report stuff like this. Being called a moron is the very tip of the iceberg here. Look around and get a sense of the general tone of the forum before you start having a hissie and running to tell the teacher. I support Vashti in her assessment of your intellectual capacity.

Well hissy fits and all Jerry would love it lol

[sweetkissesforu]

For the one who said that if you submit this to a public forum you can expect to be attacked... this is a public forum...totally viewable to the public without registration.

NYBabe.... I love how some are attacking you too, and me as well...since it is clear in the rules of posting that name calling and attacking are NOT allowed, but I guess the site owner has his favorites and allows this type of behavior with the girls that um...appeal to him.

I submitted several complaints with no action taken and no responses. I won't be sticking around here needless to say, but I'm sure to warn people on all of my relationship sites and blogs (including private one's NOT viewable to the public), that this site is bogus

Claws are OUT touche

[sweetkissesforu]

FYI... Joseph, the owner... not love admin is in Oregon... not in Malaysia or California, ya dip!

FYI who really cares when do we get to meet Joesph

[Horseyguy]

Oh, damn! I guess I've been fcuking the wrong e-penis!

But I bet Joseph doesn't like crybabies, either.

Post of the week and it's only Monday , thanks for that it made me laugh out loud and woke up half the office

[NYBabe2011]

Well we have started dating and things have gone well. We are happy together and that's what truly counts I can honestly say this is the happiest relationship I have ever been in. I love him, he loves me. We had a wonderful night last night and he is truly the man I believe I belong with.