Quote Originally Posted by clintbow View Post
he called her today ugh..at least she told me
The very fact that she took his call is a huge red flag. After everything you two discussed, she knows how inappropriate you think it is/how upset it made you feel, she's still talking to him. How she disrespects you.

Anyway, You can lead a horse to water but you can't make him drink. You don't want to leave her so you'll put up with her shinnigans. You're an enabler.