Not that the advice would be much different, CG, but you're a chick, aren't you? This makes me wonder:
I purposely said it was the wrong color and she corrected me and
I felt it matched the dress I wore the last time I met her though she did not say she got that color specifically i wore last time i met her.
If you're a guy that wears dresses, lol, then no way is she interested in you. If you're a gal, its unlikely she sees you as anything more than a friend. Is this a typo? Can you clarify for us?
Second thoughts can generally be amended with judicious action; injudicious actions can seldom be recovered with second thoughts.
--Cyteen by C.J.Cherryh