Originally Posted by
girl68
Maybe she (I) is. But you guys undermine EVERYTHING that comes out of us kids who have lived in situations like this. You all say for the kids well I'm saying AS A KID it sucked hariy balls to see shitty relationships last on the account of us "kids".
Why are you laughing? That's very kind of you.
I do not dismiss your position entirely. I understand that many kids have parents that handled it wrong. The correct solution is not always as black and white as you would like to believe, though obviously, if you have parents that behave poorly, they are better off separating. I am merely pointing out that SOMETIMES, there IS a better alternative, and that there are sometimes more important values to take into consideration when there are children involved than hurt feelings over a fling.
Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?