Back off Aegis, Cain is MY homosexual butt buddy
lol, how did this turn homosexual?! Take him! I need tits!
It's too early to call it love; I don't want to rush things, plus, we both know that one of your tenets is to wait until you're not involved with anyone else. DM seems to have you at the moment.
Can I watch?
As long as you're next.
I dunno...I seem to be lacking the parts that you guys really want.
I think it's funny when a person is ready for a blowjob, but not ready for sex because they don't want to be seen as easy.
Blowjob is sex
Done orally
Don't cry, don't regret and don't blame
Weak find the whip, willing find freedom
Towards the sun, carry your name
In warm hands you are given
Ask the wind for the way
Uncertainty's gone, your path will unravel
Accept all as it is and do not blame
God or the Devil
~Born to Live - Mavrik~
^ Exactly.
Oral sex is sex. There's nothing innocent about it. I hate when people consider innocence as sheer retainment of hymen. Plus, hymen can be surgically restored.
Also, I think a bigger "slut" is a girl who gives a BJ to every boy then one who sleeps with one out of love.
I suggest to the original poster to wait till she gets more mature. And if her B/f can't wait till she's 100% ready and sure, then she should dump him and not look back for a second.
But shouldn't oral sex be preferred over real sex? [in this case.]
I'm not saying we should give those girls a pat on the back, but at least they aren't taking that big risk.
Plus, this is the first boy that has ever seen, or done anything with me.
It's not like there's a line of boys waiting for their turn.
Mishanya & Citycat::
I'm not being mean when I say this, but there is a big difference between oral sex and the real thing. I realize blowjobs are oral sex. I'm not that ignorant on the subject. Next time I'm just specify which sex I'm not ready for. I'm not ready for the vaginal sex. Oral sex has already happened. Usually one thing leads to another, but for me that's not going to happen.
All this talk has made me realize it's not worth it. I'm not ready, it's overrated, and it's just not worth the problems and risk.
It most definitely IS overrated when you are talking about sex with an inexperienced teenager.