I agree with you on many things. One of the specialists I talked to said that maybe the child could create a stronger connection between his main ego and his real life.. but no-one can say anything for sure. I have also thought a lot about what you are saying in the beginning, things did get worse when I got pregnant.. I do think he wanted this baby but of course he is not capable to fully function as a father. I don't want to put our child up for an adoption, it's just my mothers idea.. I think the best option would be to find a good clinic for my boyfriend and until he gets better, raise the baby on my own.