What would you do if you were in my position

[Jade Falcon]

If you truly care about her...then respect her wishes. If not
then keep hassling her for it until she gives in or walks. But
you're not going to make it an enjoyable experiance for her
if you force her to do what she's not ready for.

Relax....all creatures give in to sex eventually. And its best
enjoyed when given freely and not forced.

[bigcr27]

Dude, if you are a man...you need to respect all women and their ways. That's just wrong if you don't. Now, I had sex when I was in my younger years, but that's because all the girls were sluts. anyways...time will fly by and you'll be on top of her in an instance!

[Only-virgins]

haha , theres a difference between giving up and not caring .

he just gave up , without putting up a fight probably ... Hey OV .. did you even try in the first place ... ?

No, it was never worth all that.

[funsounds]

GHB, rohypnol, and ketamine are your friends! or get a hooker...i'm pretty sure it's not considered cheating if you had to pay her!

but seriously...it's not a big deal...just wait. masterbation will have to see you through until she's 18.

[Late_vamp]

No, it was never worth all that.

i'v always been curious OV , did you ever get the opportunity to have sex , or to have a GF , or have you even masturbated yet ?

do you watch porn ? what do you think when you see and attractive woman?

I understand the Only-V type of thinking because i was once like that " only OV , i wont "love" others ( but i would date) "

but my point of view has changed after i have had some dates and GF's . i find them repulsive if they have had many "parners" ... aka ****ers . after 3-4 that have been through her (them) i dont even care about them , its just girls to date and have fun , not to get attached and defenetly not a future wife for me .

yes i realize that girls lie about the amount of guys they have had , thats why i only start to REALLY care for them after a couple of months and after they declare their love for me , until then im just a long date ... but they dont know that ... yes i have touble trusting because i dont want to get fooled . but if im just careful enough and play my cards well , then in the end it will pay off .

if they cant handle me being "normal" with them for a couple of months isntead of being that guy that sticks to his new GF like the plague then they wont be able to handle me in the future most probably ...

[Only-virgins]

i'v always been curious OV , did you ever get the opportunity to have sex , or to have a GF , or have you even masturbated yet ?

do you watch porn ? what do you think when you see and attractive woman?

I understand the Only-V type of thinking because i was once like that " only OV , i wont "love" others ( but i would date) "

but my point of view has changed after i have had some dates and GF's . i find them repulsive if they have had many "parners" ... aka ****ers . after 3-4 that have been through her (them) i dont even care about them , its just girls to date and have fun , not to get attached and defenetly not a future wife for me .

yes i realize that girls lie about the amount of guys they have had , thats why i only start to REALLY care for them after a couple of months and after they declare their love for me , until then im just a long date ... but they dont know that ... yes i have touble trusting because i dont want to get fooled . but if im just careful enough and play my cards well , then in the end it will pay off .

if they cant handle me being "normal" with them for a couple of months isntead of being that guy that sticks to his new GF like the plague then they wont be able to handle me in the future most probably ...

I don't understand; Is it ok for you to go and **** lots of girls for fun but girls who do it are repulsive?. That is a hypocrite. Too answer your questions honestly I have never had a girlfriend...I think I have had a few opportunities but I think that me being me just missed them. I do masterbate...alot actually...well not as much as I used to..sex drive is fading. I had one chance to have sex with a random girl and I didn't want too. Thats pretty much it. I did obsses over one girl for over 8 years though lol. You know I used to fight with others and even myself inside to find the answers to why I only want a virgin but that is also something I gave up on now....the only thing I came up with is that it bothers me and I believe that is enough....If a type of music bothers you then you dont listen to it right?..thats the logic I am using here. I don't blame you for your views...I don't mind what people think and how they go about things, everyone is different and everyone is themself....like your statment for example of "in the future they will not handle me"...well see...this is another place me and you would differ...I dont care about the future....there is only the past...the present that represents the past....the future I will make later and nor do I care if someone can or not handle me in this future considering I will die one day anyways so whocares?. It is apparent that many are looking/searching for a mate...I on the other hand just want a lover..and yes..there is a large difference between the two.

[boobaa]

Oh my ****ing god. It doesn't really matter if you are 17 or 18, its just a year, gods sake. I think your girl is just stupid and brainwashed by the laws of morons. She doesn't have brains, or, what is her reason? Ask her why.

[Nameless18]

Why is age a factor whether you should be a virgin or not? Is is really that bad to be a virgin when you hit 18 or older?

[Only-virgins]

Why is age a factor whether you should be a virgin or not? Is is really that bad to be a virgin when you hit 18 or older?

I dont know either. I think it really doesn't matter.

[Late_vamp]

OV , your toughts on me are wrong , its not that i sleep with plenty of women and i critisize all women who sleep with plenty of men .

i said IF im dating them and THEN they say that theyv had a large amount of guys before , then i dont see them as a future GF or a long-term relationship , i continue to date them and i just enjoy each moment , I do critisize them, i find women who got shared quite alot to be repulsive . im not a hypocrite because i have only had 2 women in my whole life that i have had sex with , one virgin(well , the other is an exception , she had sex once before) and both were/are serious relationships . my intentions with them was not to only have sex with them for fun. i have dated lots of women , but dating doesnt necessarely mean "having sex with" .


i hope you understand now .

[Nameless18]

OV , your toughts on me are wrong , its not that i sleep with plenty of women and i critisize all women who sleep with plenty of men .

i said IF im dating them and THEN they say that theyv had a large amount of guys before , then i dont see them as a future GF or a long-term relationship , i continue to date them and i just enjoy each moment , I do critisize them, i find women who got shared quite alot to be repulsive . im not a hypocrite because i have only had 2 women in my whole life that i have had sex with , one virgin(well , the other is an exception , she had sex once before) and both were/are serious relationships . my intentions with them was not to only have sex with them for fun. i have dated lots of women , but dating doesnt necessarely mean "having sex with" .


i hope you understand now .

Just a question. Let's say you met this girl, fell in love and she became your gf. Later she tells you that she had alot of other experiences with other men before you. You love her alot and she assured you that since she's with you, she won't do those kind of things with other men. Now what would you do?

[Late_vamp]

well tough decision , it hasent happened (i hope it wont ) , i would feel like a chump being the guy that didnt get lots of action ( well i have but not in terms of how many girls iv had) and ending up with the girl who went through the whole town . so i would leave her and forget about her , but before forgetting i would scrub my mouth as best as i could and go check if i have any std's if i used no protection .

i dont care if she tries to reassure me , i would feel like a total loser being with this girl , especially in public , just thinking about how many guys around us screwed her at some point and they see me now holding her hand or worst , her having my kids and my wedding ring . i would feel like everybody had their fun and im just picking up the leftovers ... NaStY ...of course she would be nice , why ? because she would know that she has little chance with another guy , i would still leave her ... not to mention how i woulnt be able to have sex with her without thinking at the back of my head how many guys ran through her like a train .

yes i know its rare to find women who havent screwed a whole nation now a days , but if you look for women from other cultures , then you will find one thats conserved/decent or maybe even virgin ... hey im muslim anyways , girls are SUPPOSED to be virgins , even if i know some arent . those are bad and probabbly have bad family anyway .

[Nameless18]

Well i suppose we think differently then. I know that nowadays, modern people don't really care about keeping their virginities. What you're saying is that it's ok for guys to lose their virginities while not ok for girls? And that you would still throw her away cause she told you her past which she could have hidden from you but still told you anyway cause she loves you?

[Late_vamp]

ohh GOD NOT AGAIN... READ MAN !!!

i said IF THEY HAD TO MANY ... here its easier for you ... if they have had to many cocks in their cunts ... i wont accept that , like 20 guys , i will accept a girl that is decent and that has had 1-2 maybe 3 max guys she has slept with before , but i would have to LOVE her ALOT the accept 3 already ... and guys are the SAME when they are virgins or not , girls arent at all , even if the vagina is strechable , it never goes back to being virgin or brand new tight . unless they do operations (plastic ).

if she chooses to lie about her past then i will find out eventually , the truth always comes out , and when it does , she will regret it one way or another . either by dumping her ass for betraying , by slowly loosing my trust or by being the a mean BF ( NOT abusif) just plain ol mean , evetually she will grow tired and will leave ... oh wait the past ..... ok well if i DO love her alot and she apologises for her mistakes then i might forgive her but i will always be on guard from then on .

[iLLuSioN_x]

Oh my ****ing god. It doesn't really matter if you are 17 or 18, its just a year, gods sake. I think your girl is just stupid and brainwashed by the laws of morons. She doesn't have brains, or, what is her reason? Ask her why.

Why is age a factor whether you should be a virgin or not? Is is really that bad to be a virgin when you hit 18 or older?

PLEASE do you really think I KNOW that?? I spent like weeks and weeks to figure out that shit reason! THERE ISN'T ANY!!

It's just because it's one of her principles which she had since forever!..

But she is such a sweet and loving girl.. I really care for her.
The thing is whenever I hear my friends talking about their gf's and how they did it in the elevator and shit..

It makes me feel that my relationship isn't at ALL complete, though I rationally realise that I SHOULD be the happiest man, as she is the best sensitive girl, who loves me so much and who if I'd lost I would be miserable and still ! I do NOT feel happy in the full sense of the word.