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    Quote Originally Posted by Sonrisa View Post
    but you are an exception, and she needs to look for someone like you. post your picture here so she knows what she needs to find in a man.
    I prefer not to More for privacy reasons than anything else. Just like I don't give out my main email address in forums. Gmail yes. I hope you can understand and respect that.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Yggdrasil View Post
    I don't disagree that her working on her figure will increase her feeling of self worth. I'm simply trying to utter my concern that the issues may be deeper than just the surface.
    Sure. But, really, who doesn't in these cases?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Sonrisa View Post
    275? whole lotta love!
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    I don't have to. I am 165lbs soaking wet, she's 275 dry. And I love every pound of her. She's always been a big girl.
    I have been very loving to her about this whole thing. She told me she understood but this time was different than the other times. She told me that he was the best boyfriend a woman could ask for. And she wanted to marry him and have kids with him. I told her that I hoped it worked out and she just needed to know more about him.

    She's almost 300 pounds, she's around 280 pounds. And she hasn't told him about her weight issues. She's lost about 20 pounds. I just tell her that she will find someone that will love her for who she is cause she's a beautiful person. But she does have low-self esteem. She tries to hide it a lot but there's been times she has looked in the mirror and busted out crying.

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    Quote Originally Posted by IndiReloaded View Post
    Sure. But, really, who doesn't in these cases?
    Very few. Mrs Ygg had self esteem issues to because of her weight.

    She had the hardest time believing that someone could love her just for being her and that someone could see her wonderfull qualities beyond the surface. Why you think we're still together after all those years? Love. Capital L.

    Enough said, I am exposing a bit to much of myself here.
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    Quote Originally Posted by jtx09 View Post
    She's almost 300 pounds, she's around 280 pounds.
    *whistles*, wow.

    Some guys actually go for big women. They're called ''feeders''. I'm sure there's a dating site somewhere for them.
    Is it burnin'? Well, f-ck, now you're learnin'.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Yggdrasil View Post
    Honestly, I don't care. I am one of those people who believe that beauty comes from within.
    That's one of the gayest things you've said so far.

    That I've read.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jtx09 View Post
    I have been very loving to her about this whole thing. She told me she understood but this time was different than the other times. She told me that he was the best boyfriend a woman could ask for. And she wanted to marry him and have kids with him. I told her that I hoped it worked out and she just needed to know more about him.

    She's almost 300 pounds, she's around 280 pounds. And she hasn't told him about her weight issues. She's lost about 20 pounds. I just tell her that she will find someone that will love her for who she is cause she's a beautiful person. But she does have low-self esteem. She tries to hide it a lot but there's been times she has looked in the mirror and busted out crying.
    Men aren't attracted to personality, they're attracted to bodies.

    A good personality can keep a guy around, though.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Frasbee View Post
    That's one of the gayest things you've said so far.

    That I've read.
    Define gay.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Frasbee View Post
    Men aren't attracted to personality, they're attracted to bodies.
    Pretty black and white there Fras.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Yggdrasil View Post
    Define gay.
    Gay = Honestly, I don't care. I am one of those people who believe that beauty comes from within.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Yggdrasil View Post
    Pretty black and white there Fras.
    You disagree?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Frasbee View Post
    Gay = Honestly, I don't care. I am one of those people who believe that beauty comes from within.

    I agree, it's cheerfull.

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    You disagree?
    Yep, I disagree... feel free to disagree
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    What is the first thing a man notices about a woman?

    Her physical appearance.

    Good thing since mother nature has been fine tuning her physique for thousands of years.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Frasbee View Post
    What is the first thing a man notices about a woman?

    Her physical appearance.

    Good thing since mother nature has been fine tuning her physique for thousands of years.
    Then how do you explain those people who 'fall in love' or are feeling attracted to someone else on msn, via txt messaging or via the phone (like date lines) without seeing eachother?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Yggdrasil View Post
    Then how do you explain those people who 'fall in love' or are feeling attracted to someone else on msn, via txt messaging or via the phone (like date lines) without seeing eachother?
    that's called a fantasy world
    The male is a domestic animal which, if treated with firmness, can be trained to do most things

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