Porn Star

[Charlie Boy II]

Mate porn is for getting off only. That's what it's made for, and that's all it's good for. If you're using it as an educational tool both you and your partner are in trouble.

[Babydoll]

Ofcourse I would prefer it if my own boyfriend didn't watch porn.. because the thought of him doing it makes me cringe. But I do it so I don't see why he can't. Also I guess it's alot better if he's open about it with you than if he hides it.. you'd probably feel alot worse if he'd been trying to hide it from you. But just because you know about it doesn't mean you havae to talk about it all the time.
I think it also depends on your situation. I think if I was living with my boyfriend and I found out he was watching porn instead of coming to bed with me.. I'd ditch him then and there. If you don't live together I think it's acceptable to watch porn.
You have to be realistic about it. Guys and girls are going to masturbate whether they're with someone or not. It's just a way to satisfy sexual needs without cheating on you, so in a way you could argue it is respectful. And if they don't watch porn.. they're gonna think about it anyways so they may as well watch it. If people don't recieve sexual satisfaction they become grouchy.. well I do anyways.
It depends on your relationship I guess and how much trust you have.
I trust my boyfriend completely and we openly talk about other people being 'hot'.
It doesn't sound like your boyfriend has a massive 'porn problem' anyways.. just tell him you don't feel comfortable with him mentioning stuff like that.

[Illusional]

And it must take away all the wonderful mystique around women and sex when you're that age. When I was 12-13 we'd all start frothing uncontrollably if we saw a pair of boobs on tv, and I think that's the way it should be.

but you have to keep in mind that everything changes. what you were used to as you were growing up has changed greatly. the standards for what's socially acceptable is different. look at the word "bitch" for example, now you see it all over regular tv.

OV, I am not a large purveyor of porn, but I have never see a video that directs a male to the clitoris, nor do they tell you what to do with it if you happen to stumble across it. Porn is not written with a woman's pleasure in mind, at least not that I've seen. It's all about male fantasy. And BTW - lots of women LOVE the missionary position.

porn actually does take a lot of consideration of the thoughts and ideas of women. there are a lot of female directors because what happens when you're an old porn star?? obviously you can't remain in front of the camera so like doggystyle, you head for the back. i think that the industry accepts both the ideas of men and women because they realize that it's a growing industry and both sexes are getting into it.

Mate porn is for getting off only. That's what it's made for, and that's all it's good for. If you're using it as an educational tool both you and your partner are in trouble.

of course it's used for getting off... but c'mon. where else would you learn about the 69?? not from your parents or watching the news. porn brings in a sort of "different" ways of pleasuring yourself other than the missionary position.

raverboy

[Babydoll]

Really? how much different do you have sex? It doesn't get much different. They don't point to the clit exactly but I think any normal person after watching porn can figure it out. There is plenty of porn videos just about sucking on the clit. Missionary position is ok once in a while but that is about it. Otherwise it gets boring.

Actually porn isn't made for women. It is largely made for males. I'm actually seeking to find porn made by women for women.
I happen to like watching pussy being eaten. The men I have seen eating pussy have been so shit I have actually resorted to watching lesbian porn. I try to get videos where I can only see the mouth and pussy so I can at least try and imagine it is a man.
Yeah porn can show you a few different positions but for me all I can really see is women being treated like objects. I don't think there's anything sexy about it. It's not what they're doing that isn't sexy as such.. it's more the fact that it clearly looks like the man is recieving more pleasure than the woman.
I feel like setting up my own porn business now lol.

[Babydoll]

porn actually does take a lot of consideration of the thoughts and ideas of women. there are a lot of female directors because what happens when you're an old porn star?? obviously you can't remain in front of the camera so like doggystyle, you head for the back. i think that the industry accepts both the ideas of men and women because they realize that it's a growing industry and both sexes are getting into it.

raverboy

oooo can you link me some sites lol????

[Illusional]

oooo can you link me some sites lol????

personally i dunno of any sites that would only list female directors, but why don't you do a search on google or something.

you're probably too young, but before an actress named asia carerra was a pretty big star. but as time past, she got old and now she's behind the camera... she may have made some lesbian shit, but i'm not really sure.

raverboy

[squirrley]

Anyone know what John Holmes is up to?

Ugliest mofo Ive ever seen. He may have been well endowed, but the man needed to wear a bag on his head! (no pun intended)

[vashti]

The overwhelming majority of porn is made for men. Can women be aroused by it? I suppose, but most of it we just find laughable. Women generally require a lot more than simple visuals to be aroused, and let's face it: there is no story line with pornography. You can be sure if there is little or no plot, it is made for men.

[Only-virgins]

The overwhelming majority of porn is made for men. Can women be aroused by it? I suppose, but most of it we just find laughable. Women generally require a lot more than simple visuals to be aroused, and let's face it: there is no story line with pornography. You can be sure if there is little or no plot, it is made for men.

You can't be aroused in sex unless it follows some drama story? Can you girls tell me what porn would look like that was made for women?

[vashti]

You can't be aroused in sex unless it follows some drama story?

Porn generally bores me. It can be useful if I am already in the mood, but otherwise, eh.

[Only-virgins]

Porn generally bores me. It can be useful if I am already in the mood, but otherwise, eh.

Wasn't talking about porn anymore. If you need a story to arouse you how do you get aroused for real? Can you also answer the second part?

[squirrley]

I find porn boring now. I get mentally aroused first. Like, I can think about it throughout the day and get all horned up, come home and get busy. I dont know that alot of women need visuals to get in the mood. Just thinking about it does it for me.

[vashti]

OV - I think erotica would probably be more on-target for most women (if any aid is even required, which I doubt).

How do people become aroused without porn? Is that what you are asking me? Really?

[TheSphinx]

They don't point to the clit exactly but I think any normal person after watching porn can figure it out.

You'd be surprised on how many complaints I've heard of men still missing it.

There is plenty of porn videos just about sucking on the clit.

If sucking is all you're doing, I'm thinking many women will be bored, or more commonly, overly sensitive as a result.

You can't be aroused in sex unless it follows some drama story? Can you girls tell me what porn would look like that was made for women?

The next time you're out getting groceries or something, try leafing through one of those romance novels and find some of the sexual scenes therein. Not all women are into them, but you'd be surprised how many are, and just what sorts of things arouse them.

In reference to the prevalence of pornography, it would be interesting to see if we reach a point where skin is so commonplace that in order to be alluring, women wear more clothing, and thus the cycle begins anew.

~Sphinx

[misombra]

i saw a documentary on the porn industry and it changed the way i think about porn entirely.

it's on liveleak if you're interested in watching it.

they said that males don't make it very often in the porn industry and they don't get paid very much. very, very, very few males can maintain an erection through the entire production and even fewer can actually finish.

also the people who they get to do these movies are really sad, pathetic beings.