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Best man
Well thanks for the opinions guys/gals I guess I don't understand it very well as I've never had a shoddy past to that degree.
My main point is just that I am disappointed in that guy for treating her how he did, but ultimately disappointed in her that she let him and didn't leave sooner... That's the part I don't understand, I thought she would have been smarter that's all.
She made the decisions she did. Judging her on them now isn't fair. You have to accept them as they are, or leave it, but don't drag her through the mud. This is completely about you and nothing about her right now, you accept it for what it is or you don't.
"All is fair in love and war." - Francis Edward Smedley