So I've been thinking a lot about this whole thing today because I had a pretty clear head all day for the first time in as long as I could recall. I feel like the only way to fix this is via a few key ingredients neither of which have to do with drugs, social workers or psychiatrists. I feel like what I truly need is simply a better social circle. Right now my entire social circle consists of about 3-4 people, and eventually it gets old always being around the same people every single day. It gets to the point where you don't even have fun anymore, you go over to your friends house and you end up just sitting there watching him play video games, or watch him fixing his computer.
I feel like I just need to get out more. The problem with this and like I have stated before is the whole being under 21 thing, and not getting along with anyone that is my own age. Everyone I like is usually 24-28. Therefore their idea of having a good time is going to Vegas for a week, going down to Atlantic City for a weekend, going out to the bar for a night etc. All of these things require you to be 21, and truthfully I don't feel I can wait another 11 months to be 21 without breaking down into a deep state of depression, and I don't want that to happen.
I know that I'm not actually depressed - yet. However I am well on my way there, I've pretty much started to turn the doorknob to the room of depression and I need to figure out how to let go of said knob. The problem is (and I'm not psychotherapist or anything) I feel like I have maybe... maybe a month to fix some things going on for me socially right now or I'm just going to fall apart one of these days. I really don't want to get to that point, I've had plenty of friends who went through serious bouts with depression and they all say the same thing "Man, once you become depressed it's the biggest uphill battle you'll ever have getting out of the depression." One of my friends explained it to me in the sense that, once you become depressed a few things happen to you. A) You cut off all contact with the outside world. B) You stop eating like your supposed to and C) You being pretty much a couch potato. He also explained what happens with these in the long term of depression. A) By cutting off all contact w/ the outside world, you also cut off your friends, family everyone. Trying to get back into that circle after some therapy and meds have taken course can take time, and a lot of times with depression you have a small gap to find something to grab hold of before you fall back into that blackhole. B) You stop eating right if at all, this causes you to often get sick, by getting sick it makes you more depressed because your sick, and then you get more depressed realizing your becoming depressed due to being sick over depression. C) You loose any form of physical shape you had, not physically looking good is horribly damaging to self-esteem... the last thing you need when your depressed is more self-esteem issues.
So what I'm saying is I've recognized my issue, now I need to determine how to fix some of it within the coming weeks before this happens and I ruin my life over stupid shit.